"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What locations do you go sarging?

SandHawk

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I'm currently doing a little bootcamp myself because I'm f'ing depressed. I've screwed up with a few things in my life that's getting the better part of me and slung me directly into a massive depression.

While I can go sit at home and weep about it, I need to get some distraction. I'd like to moderate how often I feel crap because sitting in this crap doesn't solve anything.

As I'm Dutch, we don't really have the concept of a mall. We have shopping areas, but these are mostly long streets, with people walking slowly through it staring at the windows. I tried sarging there this weekend, but getting eye contact is really difficult on the streets I've noticed, and people aren't really up for a chat. I tried a few shops which got me a bit more luck.

However, what locations do you sarge? I'm considering coffee shops, a giant electronic store(sort of like a WalMart, but with stuff ranging from extensions cords to plasma TVs, computers, washing machines) and Ikea. Gonna try Ikea in the morning and see if I have luck there. Just try to open a few chicks and ask them what they're looking for(Any better openers?).

I never had the gut to do cold approaches, and it's time I finally conquer this little thing, because it will get me a lot more girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HeyPachuco!

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I've just got back from the Netherlands. Don't you have a massive mall in Rotterdam Centrum mate? Thats like one of the biggest malls I've ever seen in Europe. I think it's called the Lijnbaan or the shopping mall itself is called the Koopgoot. I've mentioned in you're threads before (Wingman Forum) about Holland and how Dutch people are reserved. It's a shame because you have some of the hottest mixed women on the planet. You guys remind me of the French in Montreal. Anyway, I found it extremely hard to get chatting with girls in Holland. As I don't speak a tip of Dutch. Not only that, but they weren't really party girls either or up for anytime of conversation.
 

Lexington

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If you ever want to run into people who are down for a chat, coffee shops are great. I've been to Amsterdam a few times and every time I was there, I had incredibly interesting conversations in the coffee shops. Stoned people love to discuss stuff. Besides, those stoner chicks put out easy too.
 
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