"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"What kind of woman do you seek/want"

Sacrifice

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What kind of answare do you give here when a girl ask you... ofc, everyone know what kind of woman they want, but how do you guys say it to "soft" her up, to make her see and wish herself in that position

where she will think "ooh my god, this must be it" yea lame example, but you know what i mean, hopefully ;D

Do you just ramble it out, tune your voice softly, etc?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ1234

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Sacrifice said:
What kind of answare do you give here when a girl ask you... ofc, everyone know what kind of woman they want, but how do you guys say it to "soft" her up, to make her see and wish herself in that position

where she will think "ooh my god, this must be it" yea lame example, but you know what i mean, hopefully ;D

Do you just ramble it out, tune your voice softly, etc?
Engrish? Not exactly sure what you're asking here, I could only make out what I bolded, are you asking what you say to a girl when she asks you this or how do you say it? Also what is ofc? :confused:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Sacrifice said:
What kind of answare do you give here when a girl ask you...
"One that's different from the rest."
 

ducaro

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Tell her exactly this:

'A woman who has big lovely squishable warm t!ts, who can cook great food and scratch my bunnies when needed is something I would never say'

Don't mack about telling her poetry and all of that...won't work
 
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