"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"What kind of woman do you seek/want"

Sacrifice

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What kind of answare do you give here when a girl ask you... ofc, everyone know what kind of woman they want, but how do you guys say it to "soft" her up, to make her see and wish herself in that position

where she will think "ooh my god, this must be it" yea lame example, but you know what i mean, hopefully ;D

Do you just ramble it out, tune your voice softly, etc?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ1234

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Sacrifice said:
What kind of answare do you give here when a girl ask you... ofc, everyone know what kind of woman they want, but how do you guys say it to "soft" her up, to make her see and wish herself in that position

where she will think "ooh my god, this must be it" yea lame example, but you know what i mean, hopefully ;D

Do you just ramble it out, tune your voice softly, etc?
Engrish? Not exactly sure what you're asking here, I could only make out what I bolded, are you asking what you say to a girl when she asks you this or how do you say it? Also what is ofc? :confused:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Sacrifice said:
What kind of answare do you give here when a girl ask you...
"One that's different from the rest."
 

ducaro

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Tell her exactly this:

'A woman who has big lovely squishable warm t!ts, who can cook great food and scratch my bunnies when needed is something I would never say'

Don't mack about telling her poetry and all of that...won't work
 
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