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what kind of statements are DHV?

TheFlyingMan

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I've tried a few different forms of DHV, and negs are not really my thing, what I find works for me are statements about her.

But which ones are DHVs? Are only "friendly suggestions" DHV? What about positive statements? For example, I was talking to a friend, who was about a 5, who I haven't seen for a couple of years, and I said "You've changed a lot. Much more elegant and lady-like then I remember." With the right body language, etc, is that a DHV?

I know some more negative statements (which are sort of negs) worked a lot ON me, but I felt the guy who used it was a bit of ****head. For example, I met another PUA, and he used a DHV on me. His first words to me was "you need to work on your clothes."

No hellos, no how are yous. It worked for the first 10 minutes, I instantly thought he was high status. After 10 mins I figured out what he was doing, and I instantly thought he was a major ****head. 180 degree turn.

Which ones work? Can I get some examples?
 

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Fash

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TheFlyingMan said:
For example, I met another PUA, and he used a DHV on me. His first words to me was "you need to work on your clothes."
That sounds more like an AMOG tactic rather than DHV. My reply would have been "oh, dont you like it??? damn! I was trying to hard to impress you!!! Dude! you are too cool, please please tell me how I should dress!!!" In a very sarcastic way!

Don't just sit back and take that crap from Alpha Male wannabe's!
 

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you go into stage m3, then turn a 360, bring the convo back to m2, forward back to m3, mavec, IOI, ISE, MHW, get her to come home and then next her.
 

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I don't think you understand what DHV is, its basically doing something that conveys you have high value. teaching her something is a DHV, Social proof is a DHV, being not needy is a DHV...You get my point, there really isn't no statement unless your usinga canned routines, so if thats what your looking for then you will need to look around.
 

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you wanna dhv? all u gotta do is act stuck up and too good. only works if youre good looking though. like if youve seen a girl or talked to her before next time just ignore it will show some dhv. never fails for me in the beginning
 

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