"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what kind of statements are DHV?

TheFlyingMan

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I've tried a few different forms of DHV, and negs are not really my thing, what I find works for me are statements about her.

But which ones are DHVs? Are only "friendly suggestions" DHV? What about positive statements? For example, I was talking to a friend, who was about a 5, who I haven't seen for a couple of years, and I said "You've changed a lot. Much more elegant and lady-like then I remember." With the right body language, etc, is that a DHV?

I know some more negative statements (which are sort of negs) worked a lot ON me, but I felt the guy who used it was a bit of ****head. For example, I met another PUA, and he used a DHV on me. His first words to me was "you need to work on your clothes."

No hellos, no how are yous. It worked for the first 10 minutes, I instantly thought he was high status. After 10 mins I figured out what he was doing, and I instantly thought he was a major ****head. 180 degree turn.

Which ones work? Can I get some examples?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fash

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TheFlyingMan said:
For example, I met another PUA, and he used a DHV on me. His first words to me was "you need to work on your clothes."
That sounds more like an AMOG tactic rather than DHV. My reply would have been "oh, dont you like it??? damn! I was trying to hard to impress you!!! Dude! you are too cool, please please tell me how I should dress!!!" In a very sarcastic way!

Don't just sit back and take that crap from Alpha Male wannabe's!
 

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you go into stage m3, then turn a 360, bring the convo back to m2, forward back to m3, mavec, IOI, ISE, MHW, get her to come home and then next her.
 

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I don't think you understand what DHV is, its basically doing something that conveys you have high value. teaching her something is a DHV, Social proof is a DHV, being not needy is a DHV...You get my point, there really isn't no statement unless your usinga canned routines, so if thats what your looking for then you will need to look around.
 

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you wanna dhv? all u gotta do is act stuck up and too good. only works if youre good looking though. like if youve seen a girl or talked to her before next time just ignore it will show some dhv. never fails for me in the beginning
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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