"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what kind of sign is this... good or bad

MVick173

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I spoke to some girl on the phone last night. i asked her when are we gonna chill. she said whenever.. what does that mean. does that mean i could call her anytime this week and just take her out. I was gonna just surprise her one day and tell her to get dressed and take her somewhere. what you guys think about it??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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masteralios

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could me anythin really

but don't call her back and let her call u back

wen she does say ur busy

if she phones another time, this shows shes interested so go out with her
 

LikRetsam

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retarded. Don't ask her out... well, I'm telling you this because thats what everyone else on this site says.

Jesus. Yes she's interested and you need no more, when you're free call her up.

There is no such bullsh*t as waiting or playing hard to get. Unless ofcourse you don't plan on getting her.
 

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Originally posted by MVick173
I spoke to some girl on the phone last night. i asked her when are we gonna chill. she said whenever.. what does that mean?
Now, this is where I have to agree with Lik...


MVick173, you have got to be kidding me. You talk to a girl, she says she'll chill with you "whenever", and you come to a website asking other people what the fvck you should do. Are you serious? I mean, really, are you out of your mind?

With all respect, I think you should consider deciding what to do with your OWN life without the opinions of others. Think about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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