"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"What Kind of Music You Listen To?"

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Personally, I think that liking rap is an indication of femininity. It isn't guy music. It's pu$$y sh*t, all rhythm and no substance. It's anti-substance actually.

There's nothing gay about what you like.... If you'd said you love Ludapiss and 25 Cent I'd have laughed at you....

People ask me what I like I tell 'em.... Rock and metal for life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Pantera_man
Personally, I think that liking rap is an indication of femininity. It isn't guy music. It's pu$$y sh*t, all rhythm and no substance. It's anti-substance actually.

There's nothing gay about what you like.... If you'd said you love Ludapiss and 25 Cent I'd have laughed at you....

People ask me what I like I tell 'em.... Rock and metal for life.
Better than the music of Lucifer and indisriminate wailing and groaning, old people phucking on a dirty old spring matress sounds better.

Anyway back on topic

I listen to a lot of 70's funk, soul, old school rap/hip-hop (1980's and late 70's vintage), classical music (Richard Rodgers is one of the best composers of the 20th century), and some jazz (you can't beat the Duke or Dizzy.)
 

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Originally posted by jetboy
Hey, if a girl asks that question will it be alright if I say the music that I really like ( Ryan Cabrera, Howie Day, Green Day, etc) or what most guys I think likes ( Eminem, Ludacris, 50 cent)? Cause I think the songs I like are generally liked by (for?) female audiences and they might think I'm all girly and stuff. Someone please tell me that they are not so feminine and that you like them too!!:p
Stupid question. OF COURSE you tell her what music you really like! Hell, one of my friends who's a complete badass who loves metal (Dream Theater, Haste The Day, All That Remains, As I Lay Dying, Zao, etc) loves Kelly Clarkson's music and is not ashamed of it whatsoever. Doesn't hurt him or his image.
 

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Yeah dude, just tell the truth. If she doesn't like you just because you like music that she isn't so hot for, then she's obviously not worth your time. I listen to stuff like The Used, Vendetta Red, Boys Night Out, and even Gwen Stefani. But I totally can't stand any kind of rap.
 

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Originally posted by Pantera_man
Personally, I think that liking rap is an indication of femininity. It isn't guy music. It's pu$$y sh*t, all rhythm and no substance. It's anti-substance actually.

There's nothing gay about what you like.... If you'd said you love Ludapiss and 25 Cent I'd have laughed at you....

People ask me what I like I tell 'em.... Rock and metal for life.
wow a form of prejudice for peoples music tastes, what next:confused:

"you eat healthy ? you must have been a fatass in young age, you suck ":rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes! Dio rules!

But really if you get a girl into any music get her into Lords of Acid - any album and any song will do.

:cool:
 

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Better than the music of Lucifer and indisriminate wailing and groaning, old people phucking on a dirty old spring matress sounds better.
Maybe to you, f*cking pervert, but to anyone who knows music metal kicks the absolute sh*t out of your soul/hip-hop pansy music.

We all know that real mobsters and coke dealers make poorly written songs about their criminal exploits for the feds to hear....

Some art form....
 

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Eveything 'cept country...

emo, indie rock (death cab rocks), modern rock (foo fighters), I like sigor ros, muse, radio head, travis, modest mouse, rhcp, dave mathews, jimmy eats world, system of a down, cold, from zero, rap--jay z, kanye, bennie, cam'ron/ dipset, POP- ashlee simpson, kelly clarkson (great album), joss stone, fiona, christina, madona, britiny....... I listen to just bout everything...neil young tom waits, cure, tears for fears, queen.....
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Eveything 'cept country...

emo, indie rock (death cab rocks), modern rock (foo fighters), I like sigor ros, muse, radio head, travis, modest mouse, rhcp, dave mathews, jimmy eats world, system of a down, cold, from zero, rap--jay z, kanye, bennie, cam'ron/ dipset, POP- ashlee simpson, kelly clarkson (great album), joss stone, fiona, christina, madona, britiny....... I listen to just bout everything...neil young tom waits, cure, tears for fears, queen.....
ah thx for reminding me

i like anything except country.......and emo
EMO IS FOR DEPRESSED PEOPLE.
depression is a mental problem
germans had the right idea about what to do about that. :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
But really if you get a girl into any music get her into Lords of Acid - any album and any song will do.

:cool:
“Heaven Is An Orgasm” is one of the best electronic songs ever. Can never go wrong listening to it.:D
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
ah thx for reminding me

i like anything except country.......and emo
EMO IS FOR DEPRESSED PEOPLE.
depression is a mental problem
germans had the right idea about what to do about that. :up:
STOP POSTING
 

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Originally posted by RBB
Tell 'em you listen to Samtron 50E. If they ask you who they are, say it's your band. When she asks you what kinda music you play, tell her Carbimazole. If she asks you what that is, tell her you don't know.

Ask her what's with all the questions?
The best response yet...

The way I see it, you've got two options. One, tell her what you listen to - and then grill her about her music interests. Do it as a qualifier - as in "I listen to whatever I like. Right now I've been liking Green Day. How about you, do you listen to anything good?" and all of a sudden she's trying to think of something 'good' that she listens to, and by answering that question she's qualifying herself to you. If you like her taste, that's perfect grounds to suggest that you have a CD she'd enjoy at home. In your room. Next to your bed.

Or, if you like to funny and love to tease like I do, go for RBBs method and lie in the mischiveious way - where she believes you at first and then figures out you're lying. She'll probably play hit you, and then you can tease her for being gullible, and then go on to ask her if she listens to anything good.

Remember, for the funny response, it's all about how you say it. She should believe you at first, and then you smirk when she finally realizes you're full of sh!t.
 

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Originally posted by gravstar
Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Lynyrd Skynyrd & Guns N' Roses all rip. Rap dosen't do anything for me neither does whinge rock, the older stuff is the best.

Who else likes this stuff?
You like exactly the same music I like man!
I would add The Doors and that rocks :)

For The Topic Poster, be yourself don't tell them you like rap if you don't, it won't change anything ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by jetboy
Hey, if a girl asks that question will it be alright if I say the music that I really like ( Ryan Cabrera, Howie Day, Green Day, etc) or what most guys I think likes ( Eminem, Ludacris, 50 cent)? Cause I think the songs I like are generally liked by (for?) female audiences and they might think I'm all girly and stuff. Someone please tell me that they are not so feminine and that you like them too!!:p
I listen to Smash NRG - CD1 Mixed By Rednoise
On http://160.79.128.9/

Great trance mix.
 
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