Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"What Kind of Music You Listen To?"

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Personally, I think that liking rap is an indication of femininity. It isn't guy music. It's pu$$y sh*t, all rhythm and no substance. It's anti-substance actually.

There's nothing gay about what you like.... If you'd said you love Ludapiss and 25 Cent I'd have laughed at you....

People ask me what I like I tell 'em.... Rock and metal for life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Pantera_man
Personally, I think that liking rap is an indication of femininity. It isn't guy music. It's pu$$y sh*t, all rhythm and no substance. It's anti-substance actually.

There's nothing gay about what you like.... If you'd said you love Ludapiss and 25 Cent I'd have laughed at you....

People ask me what I like I tell 'em.... Rock and metal for life.
Better than the music of Lucifer and indisriminate wailing and groaning, old people phucking on a dirty old spring matress sounds better.

Anyway back on topic

I listen to a lot of 70's funk, soul, old school rap/hip-hop (1980's and late 70's vintage), classical music (Richard Rodgers is one of the best composers of the 20th century), and some jazz (you can't beat the Duke or Dizzy.)
 

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Originally posted by jetboy
Hey, if a girl asks that question will it be alright if I say the music that I really like ( Ryan Cabrera, Howie Day, Green Day, etc) or what most guys I think likes ( Eminem, Ludacris, 50 cent)? Cause I think the songs I like are generally liked by (for?) female audiences and they might think I'm all girly and stuff. Someone please tell me that they are not so feminine and that you like them too!!:p
Stupid question. OF COURSE you tell her what music you really like! Hell, one of my friends who's a complete badass who loves metal (Dream Theater, Haste The Day, All That Remains, As I Lay Dying, Zao, etc) loves Kelly Clarkson's music and is not ashamed of it whatsoever. Doesn't hurt him or his image.
 

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Yeah dude, just tell the truth. If she doesn't like you just because you like music that she isn't so hot for, then she's obviously not worth your time. I listen to stuff like The Used, Vendetta Red, Boys Night Out, and even Gwen Stefani. But I totally can't stand any kind of rap.
 

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Originally posted by Pantera_man
Personally, I think that liking rap is an indication of femininity. It isn't guy music. It's pu$$y sh*t, all rhythm and no substance. It's anti-substance actually.

There's nothing gay about what you like.... If you'd said you love Ludapiss and 25 Cent I'd have laughed at you....

People ask me what I like I tell 'em.... Rock and metal for life.
wow a form of prejudice for peoples music tastes, what next:confused:

"you eat healthy ? you must have been a fatass in young age, you suck ":rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes! Dio rules!

But really if you get a girl into any music get her into Lords of Acid - any album and any song will do.

:cool:
 

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Better than the music of Lucifer and indisriminate wailing and groaning, old people phucking on a dirty old spring matress sounds better.
Maybe to you, f*cking pervert, but to anyone who knows music metal kicks the absolute sh*t out of your soul/hip-hop pansy music.

We all know that real mobsters and coke dealers make poorly written songs about their criminal exploits for the feds to hear....

Some art form....
 

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Eveything 'cept country...

emo, indie rock (death cab rocks), modern rock (foo fighters), I like sigor ros, muse, radio head, travis, modest mouse, rhcp, dave mathews, jimmy eats world, system of a down, cold, from zero, rap--jay z, kanye, bennie, cam'ron/ dipset, POP- ashlee simpson, kelly clarkson (great album), joss stone, fiona, christina, madona, britiny....... I listen to just bout everything...neil young tom waits, cure, tears for fears, queen.....
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Eveything 'cept country...

emo, indie rock (death cab rocks), modern rock (foo fighters), I like sigor ros, muse, radio head, travis, modest mouse, rhcp, dave mathews, jimmy eats world, system of a down, cold, from zero, rap--jay z, kanye, bennie, cam'ron/ dipset, POP- ashlee simpson, kelly clarkson (great album), joss stone, fiona, christina, madona, britiny....... I listen to just bout everything...neil young tom waits, cure, tears for fears, queen.....
ah thx for reminding me

i like anything except country.......and emo
EMO IS FOR DEPRESSED PEOPLE.
depression is a mental problem
germans had the right idea about what to do about that. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
But really if you get a girl into any music get her into Lords of Acid - any album and any song will do.

:cool:
“Heaven Is An Orgasm” is one of the best electronic songs ever. Can never go wrong listening to it.:D
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
ah thx for reminding me

i like anything except country.......and emo
EMO IS FOR DEPRESSED PEOPLE.
depression is a mental problem
germans had the right idea about what to do about that. :up:
STOP POSTING
 

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Originally posted by RBB
Tell 'em you listen to Samtron 50E. If they ask you who they are, say it's your band. When she asks you what kinda music you play, tell her Carbimazole. If she asks you what that is, tell her you don't know.

Ask her what's with all the questions?
The best response yet...

The way I see it, you've got two options. One, tell her what you listen to - and then grill her about her music interests. Do it as a qualifier - as in "I listen to whatever I like. Right now I've been liking Green Day. How about you, do you listen to anything good?" and all of a sudden she's trying to think of something 'good' that she listens to, and by answering that question she's qualifying herself to you. If you like her taste, that's perfect grounds to suggest that you have a CD she'd enjoy at home. In your room. Next to your bed.

Or, if you like to funny and love to tease like I do, go for RBBs method and lie in the mischiveious way - where she believes you at first and then figures out you're lying. She'll probably play hit you, and then you can tease her for being gullible, and then go on to ask her if she listens to anything good.

Remember, for the funny response, it's all about how you say it. She should believe you at first, and then you smirk when she finally realizes you're full of sh!t.
 

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Originally posted by gravstar
Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Lynyrd Skynyrd & Guns N' Roses all rip. Rap dosen't do anything for me neither does whinge rock, the older stuff is the best.

Who else likes this stuff?
You like exactly the same music I like man!
I would add The Doors and that rocks :)

For The Topic Poster, be yourself don't tell them you like rap if you don't, it won't change anything ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by jetboy
Hey, if a girl asks that question will it be alright if I say the music that I really like ( Ryan Cabrera, Howie Day, Green Day, etc) or what most guys I think likes ( Eminem, Ludacris, 50 cent)? Cause I think the songs I like are generally liked by (for?) female audiences and they might think I'm all girly and stuff. Someone please tell me that they are not so feminine and that you like them too!!:p
I listen to Smash NRG - CD1 Mixed By Rednoise
On http://160.79.128.9/

Great trance mix.
 
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