"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What kind of men date good looking Blondes on the regular?

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I have had success with cute brunettes, cute redheads, cute latin girls, and cute mixed race girls. My most recent lay was from this California blonde but I notice that out of all kinds of women out there, blondes give me the most rejections. The sex I had with the California Blonde was amazing and I think I want to start hooking up with cute and attractive blondes more often now.

What kind of guy do I have to be? What kind of game do I need?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ambitious Player said:
I have had success with cute brunettes, cute redheads, cute latin girls, and cute mixed race girls. My most recent lay was from this California blonde but I notice that out of all kinds of women out there, blondes give me the most rejections. The sex I had with the California Blonde was amazing and I think I want to start hooking up with cute and attractive blondes more often now.

What kind of guy do I have to be? What kind of game do I need?

What kind of men date good looking Blondes on the regular?
Hugh Hefner.
 

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Buy a bottle of peroxide.

Ambitious Player said:
I have had success with cute brunettes, cute redheads, cute latin girls, and cute mixed race girls. My most recent lay was from this California blonde but I notice that out of all kinds of women out there, blondes give me the most rejections. The sex I had with the California Blonde was amazing and I think I want to start hooking up with cute and attractive blondes more often now.

What kind of guy do I have to be?
What kind of game do I need?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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From what i've seen there is a very specific guy who gets with the 8-10 blondes. I usually do not see single blondes very often, unless they are the #yolo or club scene "bisexual" kinda girls.
Whenever i see a blonde girl who seems somewhat intelligent and professional, I know exactly the guys they will be with:
Short to average height semi-muscular guys in black D1ckies shorts, black Tapout tank top and black hat. This is like their uniform.

Generic seeming girls, get with generic seeming guys.
Not trying to sound negative at all, I can see why this makes sense.

I don't think any guy who works out and is into UFC will have a hard time getting girls.
but then a lot of those guys were raised around men, and have older brothers too, which makes a huge difference.

wow... they censored out D1ckies.
 

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what a retarded thread...blonde, brunette...purple..what's the difference, they are all women..
 

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if we are talking about boyfriend then they are usually tall , fit , white , with a car that show he is rich . that is usually where I found blondes with .
for hookup they are with a cool black guy .
 
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if we are talking about boyfriend then they are usually tall , fit , white , with a car that show he is rich . that is usually where I found blondes with .
for hookup they are with a cool black guy .
how about other races?
 

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In Canada I never seen blondes have LTR with non white , and if she is fattie or over 26 then you will see her with a black guy with 2 mixed race kids .
but for short term they try every thing . that is my experience in Canada .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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white, rich, tall, pro-hormones and deer antler steroid sprays, afflictions shirts, drives lifted truck or other douchy ride etc.....


i personally dont even consider blondes an option
 

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Ahh....those blondes.

For reference, I've only hooked up with two "hot" natural blondes. I prefer brunettes normally, but these blondes got me all worked up.

Blonde #1 - Duller than dish water, but smart as a whip. Works as nurse now and is marrying some Indian doctor. Great kisser, lousy lay.

Blonde #2 - Very entertaining, and comes from a rich family who lives on Lake Michigan. Sort of flighty and changes her mind on a dime a lot. She gets away with acting like a b!tch to almost everyone, but she was oddly loyal to me and attentive. Probably would have made a great wife, but I was partially AFC when I was with her and felt insecure - which probably led to her dumping me.

i'm pretty much a normal guy...so what did I do to bed them?

Blonde #1 was into my value and popularity. I had hot streak going with some beautiful women during college and she wanted a part of it. All I had to do was talk to her sporadically and she started following me around. Show low interest...and I became a challenge to her.

Blonde #2 was into my humor. She happened to pay attention to me while we were at party and I was cracking jokes because I was drunk. Right place, right time.
 

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Non-white dudes especially black guys. Which is odd and ironic, because that kills the blonde gene off and makes it rarer. I don't know if its because white culture kiss blonde's ass so much that makes these chicks go with minorities, or the fact that minorities want a blonde white b!tch due to self hate.

What kind of guy do you have to be? I'm guessing acting non-white would get the job done. Listen to rap or Chicano music and dress in manner that makes you appear "hard". Most whites that are with blondes that I have seen appear to have some facial hair or tattoo of some kind.
 
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expos said:
Ahh....those blondes.

For reference, I've only hooked up with two "hot" natural blondes. I prefer brunettes normally, but these blondes got me all worked up.

Blonde #1 - Duller than dish water, but smart as a whip. Works as nurse now and is marrying some Indian doctor. Great kisser, lousy lay.
Indian like dot or feather?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hustlaz Ambition said:
Non-white dudes especially black guys. Which is odd and ironic, because that kills the blonde gene off and makes it rarer. I don't know if its because white culture kiss blonde's ass so much that makes these chicks go with minorities, or the fact that minorities want a blonde white b!tch due to self hate.

What kind of guy do you have to be? I'm guessing acting non-white would get the job done. Listen to rap or Chicano music and dress in manner that makes you appear "hard". Most whites that are with blondes that I have seen appear to have some facial hair or tattoo of some kind.
Well man I live in SEC Country, never seen an attractive blonde with a minority before. Whether he be black or latino.
 
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Indian Dot.
wow some hope for Indian guys out there afterall

I have seen so many pretty nurses that are White and so many Indian doctors, never seen the two hook up though, sad state of affairs for Indian guys I guess.
 

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I have NEVER seen an attractive white woman with an Indian or asian man before.

I rarely see black men with attractive white women, but the few who are were typically over 6 feet tall and had basketball player physiques. 90% of the black guys are with the castoff fatties/uglies that the white guys don't want.

I see chubby white guys with HB9's on their arm all the time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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