"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What kind of hand technique was that?

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Alright, at school one morning i was sitting where i normally sit. Things were going good as usual. Short and simple....a few minutes pass and one of my friends (irvin) and the girl i'm trying to get with (ashley) start talking. Irvin has a girlfriend so i have nothing to worry about w/ him. But one thing lead to another and ashley said something to him and he put his hand around her neck (kind of around the jawbone and a little further back, to where the tips of his fingers were right below and behind her ear) a couple of seconds passed and she closed her eyes, then she jumped a little, and kinda moved away like something "happened." Alright will someone please tell me what he did, and how to do that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well, now that i re-read that, it does sound like he was choking her. Not what i implied though, what i meant to say was that his entire hand was on one side of her head, in a "non-choking" way. sorry for the misunderstanding, gave me a good laugh though.
 
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wtf was he doing..whatever just dont try iot on any girls theyl freak out or some guy might deck u in the face for choking a female
 
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sounds like the nerd trying to point out pressure points move.

oh how i miss high school
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why not just ask him?

I mean he is your friend, right?
 
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Was he caressing the side of her face? I tend to do that sometimes.
 
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