"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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What kind of hand technique was that?

Dragunfli

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Alright, at school one morning i was sitting where i normally sit. Things were going good as usual. Short and simple....a few minutes pass and one of my friends (irvin) and the girl i'm trying to get with (ashley) start talking. Irvin has a girlfriend so i have nothing to worry about w/ him. But one thing lead to another and ashley said something to him and he put his hand around her neck (kind of around the jawbone and a little further back, to where the tips of his fingers were right below and behind her ear) a couple of seconds passed and she closed her eyes, then she jumped a little, and kinda moved away like something "happened." Alright will someone please tell me what he did, and how to do that.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dragunfli

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well, now that i re-read that, it does sound like he was choking her. Not what i implied though, what i meant to say was that his entire hand was on one side of her head, in a "non-choking" way. sorry for the misunderstanding, gave me a good laugh though.
 

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wtf was he doing..whatever just dont try iot on any girls theyl freak out or some guy might deck u in the face for choking a female
 

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sounds like the nerd trying to point out pressure points move.

oh how i miss high school
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why not just ask him?

I mean he is your friend, right?
 

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Was he caressing the side of her face? I tend to do that sometimes.
 
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