"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What kind of hand technique was that?

Dragunfli

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Alright, at school one morning i was sitting where i normally sit. Things were going good as usual. Short and simple....a few minutes pass and one of my friends (irvin) and the girl i'm trying to get with (ashley) start talking. Irvin has a girlfriend so i have nothing to worry about w/ him. But one thing lead to another and ashley said something to him and he put his hand around her neck (kind of around the jawbone and a little further back, to where the tips of his fingers were right below and behind her ear) a couple of seconds passed and she closed her eyes, then she jumped a little, and kinda moved away like something "happened." Alright will someone please tell me what he did, and how to do that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dragunfli

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well, now that i re-read that, it does sound like he was choking her. Not what i implied though, what i meant to say was that his entire hand was on one side of her head, in a "non-choking" way. sorry for the misunderstanding, gave me a good laugh though.
 

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wtf was he doing..whatever just dont try iot on any girls theyl freak out or some guy might deck u in the face for choking a female
 

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sounds like the nerd trying to point out pressure points move.

oh how i miss high school
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NFC

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Why not just ask him?

I mean he is your friend, right?
 

Skilla_Staz

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Was he caressing the side of her face? I tend to do that sometimes.
 
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