Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What kind of guys "kill it" where you live?

JackRobin

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I live in North Carolina (Chapel Hill to be exact) and I have to say that Fraternity kids here KILL IT.

Usually it is the All American kind of White guys, anglo looking, usually fit (ripped), in fraternities, and mostly outgoing that kill it with ALL KINDS of girls here. A lot of them dress preppy but when I say they kill it with all kinds of girls, I mean it.

I have seen these guys nail some pretty looking White girls (obviously) but even a lot of the 8/10 and up Latinas and Asian girls are getting with them too. These guys have access to a lot of the top tier girls here that other guys don't really have. When I say have their pick of the litter, I mean their pick of the litter, these guys nail 8/10s and up of any race.

As for runners up, I will say that Americanized Asian and Indian guys don't do that bad at all. I have seen a lot of Asian guys here date cute Latin and White girls, some even dating hot Black girls. For Indian guys, I have seen them date White girls and Asian girls a lot, I myself have been with some Latinas and so have other Indian guys I have known but usually they date White girls and Asian girls if they aren't with Indian girls. They don't do so bad here.


This may come as a shock but I have not seen that many Black guy - White girl couples here at all, most Black men I see here are usually dating Black girls or Latinas but I have talked to a lot of White girls here who said they just aren't into Black men.

Hard for me to say anything about Latinos but I will say they have it good, I will put them inbetween the White guys and Americanized Asian and Brown guys.

FOBs (Asians and Indians usually) are at rock bottom, lucky to get a date with a woman of their own race.

So what about your area?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good looking guys that are also tall. They kill it here.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Where I live, Falcons Players, Hawks Players, Braves players, Millionaires, Personal trainers at the LA Fitness, basically any working man WHO MADE IT IN THE NOW, regardless of race. Attractive white women seem reserved only for these types. The working men trying to come up have a tougher time with Atlanta women, and their overinflated egos is no help.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Where I live, Falcons Players, Hawks Players, Braves players, Millionaires, Personal trainers at the LA Fitness, basically any working man WHO MADE IT IN THE NOW, regardless of race. Attractive white women seem reserved only for these types. The working men trying to come up have a tougher time with Atlanta women, and their overinflated egos is no help.
Yup Atlanta is the city of tricks of real
 

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nismo-4 said:
Where I live, Falcons Players, Hawks Players, Braves players, Millionaires, Personal trainers at the LA Fitness, basically any working man WHO MADE IT IN THE NOW, regardless of race. Attractive white women seem reserved only for these types. The working men trying to come up have a tougher time with Atlanta women, and their overinflated egos is no help.
how about the doctors, lawyers, bankers, and engineers?

I know an Indian guy that lives in a suburb outside of Atlanta, he kills it with the White women there.
 

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No type of person "kills it" in Toronto. You're either extremely good looking and get a decent amount of attention or you struggle to get a 5 to notice you....even if you are a 7.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well here in Brooklyn the hood niggas get all the broads. those Are our "bad Boys". if you dont Sag your pants, or do drugs or in a gang, your basically a loser and you dont get no play.
 

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youngmack said:
Well here in Brooklyn the hood niggas get all the broads. those Are our "bad Boys". if you dont Sag your pants, or do drugs or in a gang, your basically a loser and you dont get no play.
ya but brooklyn = ghetto trash women so trash attracts trash
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Good looking guys that are also tall. They kill it here.
Yeah, I would say the tall good looking guys tend to get most of the attention where I live. If they're not "killing it", they very easily could. Black or white guys, it doesn't matter.

But I think the guys I know who actually have sex with the most women are simply the guys who are the horniest (I mean in an extraverted way - not the guy who goes home and faps 10 times a day lol). They just want it more than anybody else. They're kind of dopey because maybe they don't have much else going on in their life, they're just looking for their next orgasm. And they're not really all that picky about where they're going to get it. They'll bang all sorts of women, hotties, average girls, and outright nasties.

I don't think women see these guys as any sort of prize really, but they tend to see them as kind of cute, and somewhat amusing, so they're willing to give them a tumble.
 

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I have seen short Asian and Indian guys dating decent looking women outside their own race. Weirdest couple I know is this 5"7 Indian guy (130 lbs) dating this White-Asian mix girl that is 5"8!
 

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Everyone down here (SE NC) is either married, or has that focus in mind - due to the nature and culture down here - so nobody is really killing ****. Just a bunch of ordinary, quiet, respectful, semi-geeky folks who stay at home, and... That's about it.

Works for me! Gotta love the peace, and minimal drama. Mmmmmmmmmmm.... Now if only it was that way in my mind. It's ****ing chaos in there - even with all this good **** everywhere. Damn northerners. No wonder why they hate us. :D

Haven't really gone out or tried to date yet. Probably won't get back out there for a while yet. But I'm definitely getting relationship / marriage vibes from down here. Not a lot of (if any) flirting, aggressive behavior, sexual inneundos, hook ups, etc. Just "passionate" kissing, holding hands, getting to know each other, having babies, and raising families. :cheer:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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floydb25 said:
Everyone down here (SE NC) is either married, or has that focus in mind - due to the nature and culture down here - so nobody is really killing ****. Just a bunch of ordinary, quiet, respectful, semi-geeky folks who stay at home, and... That's about it.

Works for me! Gotta love the peace, and minimal drama. Mmmmmmmmmmm.... Now if only it was that way in my mind. It's ****ing chaos in there - even with all this good **** everywhere. Damn northerners. No wonder why they hate us. :D

Haven't really gone out or tried to date yet. Probably won't get back out there for a while yet. But I'm definitely getting relationship / marriage vibes from down here. Not a lot of (if any) flirting, aggressive behavior, sexual inneundos, hook ups, etc. Just "passionate" kissing, holding hands, getting to know each other, having babies, and raising families. :cheer:

Dude I'm getting the Wilmington NC vibe from you. SE NC. I lived there for about three years. Chicks were hot as hell (mostly from all over) ones who stay there...not so much. I miss Thrillmington at times. You gotta be near there...
 

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Dude I'm getting the Wilmington NC vibe from you. SE NC. I lived there for about three years. Chicks were hot as hell (mostly from all over) ones who stay there...not so much. I miss Thrillmington at times. You gotta be near there...
Ok, since I've never actually been there, decided to look it up. It's about 2 1/2 hours from here, to the SW. I live by Atlantic Beach (ie, the Ocean), in the more rural but still city-like areas. Up north by Raleigh and Greenville is where the city life is, from my understanding. All the parties, universities, and associated retards that come with it. Seen a lot of skanks from dating sites on there, as well.

But there's definitely a variety of people down here. Migraters from other states, all the military people, etc. They're still all mostly pleasant, except in the ghetto areas (or what they consider down here). Nothing at all like the crazy, disrespectful, loud-mouthed *******s up north.

There's a lot of ordinary / cute people down here, but I don't care. Associated with the "hot" crowd, and dated those fake *****es for far too long. It wasn't until coming down here - by all the ordinary folk - that I stopped hating everything. Plus, with the way the culture and society is, they're very kind, generous, caring, and well-mannered. Cute and nice works for me. :flowers:
 

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I don't really know. There are the party-crazy white guys here that get laid a lot, but they only get laid by the s1utty white girls, usually the same ones multiple times. Everybody else here either has one girlfriend or can't get any at all.
 

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JackRobin said:
how about the doctors, lawyers, bankers, and engineers?

I know an Indian guy that lives in a suburb outside of Atlanta, he kills it with the White women there.
All of this falls into millionaires and working men who have success IN THE NOW. They're not working men trying to come up. That's what I posted.
 

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nismo-4 said:
All of this falls into millionaires and working men who have success IN THE NOW. They're not working men trying to come up. That's what I posted.
Can't agree with you there, I have known young dudes who weren't very rich that killed it in Atlanta.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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