"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What kind of guys "kill it" where you live?

JackRobin

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I live in North Carolina (Chapel Hill to be exact) and I have to say that Fraternity kids here KILL IT.

Usually it is the All American kind of White guys, anglo looking, usually fit (ripped), in fraternities, and mostly outgoing that kill it with ALL KINDS of girls here. A lot of them dress preppy but when I say they kill it with all kinds of girls, I mean it.

I have seen these guys nail some pretty looking White girls (obviously) but even a lot of the 8/10 and up Latinas and Asian girls are getting with them too. These guys have access to a lot of the top tier girls here that other guys don't really have. When I say have their pick of the litter, I mean their pick of the litter, these guys nail 8/10s and up of any race.

As for runners up, I will say that Americanized Asian and Indian guys don't do that bad at all. I have seen a lot of Asian guys here date cute Latin and White girls, some even dating hot Black girls. For Indian guys, I have seen them date White girls and Asian girls a lot, I myself have been with some Latinas and so have other Indian guys I have known but usually they date White girls and Asian girls if they aren't with Indian girls. They don't do so bad here.


This may come as a shock but I have not seen that many Black guy - White girl couples here at all, most Black men I see here are usually dating Black girls or Latinas but I have talked to a lot of White girls here who said they just aren't into Black men.

Hard for me to say anything about Latinos but I will say they have it good, I will put them inbetween the White guys and Americanized Asian and Brown guys.

FOBs (Asians and Indians usually) are at rock bottom, lucky to get a date with a woman of their own race.

So what about your area?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good looking guys that are also tall. They kill it here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where I live, Falcons Players, Hawks Players, Braves players, Millionaires, Personal trainers at the LA Fitness, basically any working man WHO MADE IT IN THE NOW, regardless of race. Attractive white women seem reserved only for these types. The working men trying to come up have a tougher time with Atlanta women, and their overinflated egos is no help.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Where I live, Falcons Players, Hawks Players, Braves players, Millionaires, Personal trainers at the LA Fitness, basically any working man WHO MADE IT IN THE NOW, regardless of race. Attractive white women seem reserved only for these types. The working men trying to come up have a tougher time with Atlanta women, and their overinflated egos is no help.
Yup Atlanta is the city of tricks of real
 

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nismo-4 said:
Where I live, Falcons Players, Hawks Players, Braves players, Millionaires, Personal trainers at the LA Fitness, basically any working man WHO MADE IT IN THE NOW, regardless of race. Attractive white women seem reserved only for these types. The working men trying to come up have a tougher time with Atlanta women, and their overinflated egos is no help.
how about the doctors, lawyers, bankers, and engineers?

I know an Indian guy that lives in a suburb outside of Atlanta, he kills it with the White women there.
 

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No type of person "kills it" in Toronto. You're either extremely good looking and get a decent amount of attention or you struggle to get a 5 to notice you....even if you are a 7.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well here in Brooklyn the hood niggas get all the broads. those Are our "bad Boys". if you dont Sag your pants, or do drugs or in a gang, your basically a loser and you dont get no play.
 

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youngmack said:
Well here in Brooklyn the hood niggas get all the broads. those Are our "bad Boys". if you dont Sag your pants, or do drugs or in a gang, your basically a loser and you dont get no play.
ya but brooklyn = ghetto trash women so trash attracts trash
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Good looking guys that are also tall. They kill it here.
Yeah, I would say the tall good looking guys tend to get most of the attention where I live. If they're not "killing it", they very easily could. Black or white guys, it doesn't matter.

But I think the guys I know who actually have sex with the most women are simply the guys who are the horniest (I mean in an extraverted way - not the guy who goes home and faps 10 times a day lol). They just want it more than anybody else. They're kind of dopey because maybe they don't have much else going on in their life, they're just looking for their next orgasm. And they're not really all that picky about where they're going to get it. They'll bang all sorts of women, hotties, average girls, and outright nasties.

I don't think women see these guys as any sort of prize really, but they tend to see them as kind of cute, and somewhat amusing, so they're willing to give them a tumble.
 

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I have seen short Asian and Indian guys dating decent looking women outside their own race. Weirdest couple I know is this 5"7 Indian guy (130 lbs) dating this White-Asian mix girl that is 5"8!
 

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Everyone down here (SE NC) is either married, or has that focus in mind - due to the nature and culture down here - so nobody is really killing ****. Just a bunch of ordinary, quiet, respectful, semi-geeky folks who stay at home, and... That's about it.

Works for me! Gotta love the peace, and minimal drama. Mmmmmmmmmmm.... Now if only it was that way in my mind. It's ****ing chaos in there - even with all this good **** everywhere. Damn northerners. No wonder why they hate us. :D

Haven't really gone out or tried to date yet. Probably won't get back out there for a while yet. But I'm definitely getting relationship / marriage vibes from down here. Not a lot of (if any) flirting, aggressive behavior, sexual inneundos, hook ups, etc. Just "passionate" kissing, holding hands, getting to know each other, having babies, and raising families. :cheer:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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floydb25 said:
Everyone down here (SE NC) is either married, or has that focus in mind - due to the nature and culture down here - so nobody is really killing ****. Just a bunch of ordinary, quiet, respectful, semi-geeky folks who stay at home, and... That's about it.

Works for me! Gotta love the peace, and minimal drama. Mmmmmmmmmmm.... Now if only it was that way in my mind. It's ****ing chaos in there - even with all this good **** everywhere. Damn northerners. No wonder why they hate us. :D

Haven't really gone out or tried to date yet. Probably won't get back out there for a while yet. But I'm definitely getting relationship / marriage vibes from down here. Not a lot of (if any) flirting, aggressive behavior, sexual inneundos, hook ups, etc. Just "passionate" kissing, holding hands, getting to know each other, having babies, and raising families. :cheer:

Dude I'm getting the Wilmington NC vibe from you. SE NC. I lived there for about three years. Chicks were hot as hell (mostly from all over) ones who stay there...not so much. I miss Thrillmington at times. You gotta be near there...
 

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Dude I'm getting the Wilmington NC vibe from you. SE NC. I lived there for about three years. Chicks were hot as hell (mostly from all over) ones who stay there...not so much. I miss Thrillmington at times. You gotta be near there...
Ok, since I've never actually been there, decided to look it up. It's about 2 1/2 hours from here, to the SW. I live by Atlantic Beach (ie, the Ocean), in the more rural but still city-like areas. Up north by Raleigh and Greenville is where the city life is, from my understanding. All the parties, universities, and associated retards that come with it. Seen a lot of skanks from dating sites on there, as well.

But there's definitely a variety of people down here. Migraters from other states, all the military people, etc. They're still all mostly pleasant, except in the ghetto areas (or what they consider down here). Nothing at all like the crazy, disrespectful, loud-mouthed *******s up north.

There's a lot of ordinary / cute people down here, but I don't care. Associated with the "hot" crowd, and dated those fake *****es for far too long. It wasn't until coming down here - by all the ordinary folk - that I stopped hating everything. Plus, with the way the culture and society is, they're very kind, generous, caring, and well-mannered. Cute and nice works for me. :flowers:
 

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I don't really know. There are the party-crazy white guys here that get laid a lot, but they only get laid by the s1utty white girls, usually the same ones multiple times. Everybody else here either has one girlfriend or can't get any at all.
 

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JackRobin said:
how about the doctors, lawyers, bankers, and engineers?

I know an Indian guy that lives in a suburb outside of Atlanta, he kills it with the White women there.
All of this falls into millionaires and working men who have success IN THE NOW. They're not working men trying to come up. That's what I posted.
 

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All of this falls into millionaires and working men who have success IN THE NOW. They're not working men trying to come up. That's what I posted.
Can't agree with you there, I have known young dudes who weren't very rich that killed it in Atlanta.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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