"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What kind of girl is this:

youngprodigy

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Before I begin I'd like to address that I am not pursuing this women, I have ended all ties with her, understand that I deserve and can do a lot better and am spinning other plates.

I've seen articles on here regarding the types of girls there are and which ones to avoid. I know my ex was toxic but I'd like to know what type of personality she would be classified to having. Here are some characteristics to describe her
- Considers herself a princess
- Conceited to the max
- Baby talks
- Flips the script whenever she's caught in the wrong
- Lies
- Manipulates (fake tears and etc.)
- Cheats (I think)
- Her older sister is a known hoe
- Breathes and lives off validation
- Instagram pictures are full of cleavage and etc.
- Type that wants me all to herself
- Tries to turn me into a Beta
- A lot of guy orbiters
- Psychotic (doesn't trust me with other girls, plays mind games when she's bored)
- Petty
- Materialistic (flaunts my physical aspects to her friends: my car, body, looks)
- History of toying with the emotions of boys
- Her posts seem more bitter ever since I've ended things with her

That's all I can really think of so far, but at first I was thinking she could be a BPD type. Thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Serenity

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Out of control BPD maniac that you wouldn't want to touch with a pole. She's not even worth your thoughts.
 

Chev.Chelios

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If you really don't care about her, you can maybe like try to be an actual father to her?
Maybe just try to fix her a little?

What's to stop a guy, I mean like a real tough sonofa btch.. from just putting a btch in her place like HER ACTUAL father would? I mean like to the point where shes broken down to point where she wants to off herself from realizing the he'll she's put her fellow brothers through. :)

Nothing illegal, just some tough love.
 

El Payaso

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Sounds like total wife material. It's obvious you're not a real man for proposing to her.

Call her, apologize and promise that you will be the best man to her ever and always put her needs above yours.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sounds like the type of women who brought most of us here.
 
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