"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What kind of girl is this:

youngprodigy

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Before I begin I'd like to address that I am not pursuing this women, I have ended all ties with her, understand that I deserve and can do a lot better and am spinning other plates.

I've seen articles on here regarding the types of girls there are and which ones to avoid. I know my ex was toxic but I'd like to know what type of personality she would be classified to having. Here are some characteristics to describe her
- Considers herself a princess
- Conceited to the max
- Baby talks
- Flips the script whenever she's caught in the wrong
- Lies
- Manipulates (fake tears and etc.)
- Cheats (I think)
- Her older sister is a known hoe
- Breathes and lives off validation
- Instagram pictures are full of cleavage and etc.
- Type that wants me all to herself
- Tries to turn me into a Beta
- A lot of guy orbiters
- Psychotic (doesn't trust me with other girls, plays mind games when she's bored)
- Petty
- Materialistic (flaunts my physical aspects to her friends: my car, body, looks)
- History of toying with the emotions of boys
- Her posts seem more bitter ever since I've ended things with her

That's all I can really think of so far, but at first I was thinking she could be a BPD type. Thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Serenity

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Out of control BPD maniac that you wouldn't want to touch with a pole. She's not even worth your thoughts.
 
Chev.Chelios

Chev.Chelios

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If you really don't care about her, you can maybe like try to be an actual father to her?
Maybe just try to fix her a little?

What's to stop a guy, I mean like a real tough sonofa btch.. from just putting a btch in her place like HER ACTUAL father would? I mean like to the point where shes broken down to point where she wants to off herself from realizing the he'll she's put her fellow brothers through. :)

Nothing illegal, just some tough love.
 
El Payaso

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Sounds like total wife material. It's obvious you're not a real man for proposing to her.

Call her, apologize and promise that you will be the best man to her ever and always put her needs above yours.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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logicallefty

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Sounds like the type of women who brought most of us here.
 
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