"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What kind of a weenie would want to marry a pregnant woman?

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Dear Prudie,

I met this great guy and have fallen head over heels for him. He says he loves me and has even proposed, and I said yes. I know we are meant to be together, even though we just met four months ago. There's one big snag. I am eight months pregnant with my first child. I met him when I was four months pregnant, and was up front about that from the start. He said he was OK with it and wants to be there for me and the baby, even though it isn't his baby. (The father left when I first found out I was pregnant and doesn't want anything to do with me or the baby. He has disappeared from my life for good.) I have moved in with him, and he has baby-proofed the house already. He even set up a nursery while I was at work one day. He wants to be part of this baby's life, and even if we break up, he wants to be there for the baby. I feel guilty for sticking him with a baby that isn't his. Should I feel bad about letting this man raise a baby that isn't his, even if he wants to?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Doh !! What a sucker. Seen it happen, woman got pregnant, trapped different man, got married and a few years later it all goes wrong as really father re-appears on the scene and wants back....
 
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A "DJ" would marry such!!!! Haven't you been reading the boards????
 
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I can't really stand in judgement. Doesn't seem like my cup of tea, but without talking to the guy, I have no idea what's right for him. Maybe this chic is everything he's looking for in a woman and it'll all work out. Stranger things have happened.
 
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Doh !! What a sucker. Seen it happen, woman got pregnant, trapped different man, got married and a few years later it all goes wrong as really father re-appears on the scene and wants back....
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How is this a trap? She was up front with him about being pregnant, and not trying to cuckold him.

Besides, even if she were trying to pawn the pregnancy on him, he should be able to do the math. :woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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speakeasy said:
I can't really stand in judgement. Doesn't seem like my cup of tea, but without talking to the guy, I have no idea what's right for him. Maybe this chic is everything he's looking for in a woman and it'll all work out. Stranger things have happened.
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Doubtful.

He's probably a huge AFC who couldn't get anything else and decided to become a knight to this woman in hopes that his valor will keep them together forever.

There is no mountain too high, no obstacle too daunting and no difficulty too great to deter the truly desperate AFC.
 
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I've seen girls get pregnant, the guy disappears and they start dating a guy they wouldn't have given the time of day to before they were pregnant. Some guys just don't have it as easy as others when it comes to women, that's life. It doesn't always turn out badly.
 
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