"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What I've realized about HS

Worth it?

  • Yes it is.

    Votes: 5 33.3%
  • No it isn't.

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • Depends on situation?

    Votes: 8 53.3%

  • Total voters
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LuckyDevil6

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So I've been thinking about it.... all this stuff about picking up girls, getting their numbers, etc. and i've come to one conclusion, and I want feedback on what you all think too.

Is it just me, or does is seem like this stuff in HS would seem dumb to anyone?? I mean like imbetween classes and stuff... sure hitting on girls, but asking for their number? In my own experiences, it seems unnecessary because you'll be seeing these girls everyday.

I'm not saying that all this info is incorrect or pointless, but it seems not worth using in high school.

In my life, most of the girls i've got with happen to be from other schools, that i meet when i'm out with people, and able to 'game' on.

Feedback? Comments?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Layla

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I personally dont go for my HS girls, even though i can get them. I mean, your dating a girl who probably hooked up with your friend. It just feels wierd.

With that said, there are still people who go for their HS girls and yes, it is worth it.
 

Kerensky

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I don't think DJ 'techniques' should be used in high school. They're pretty lame anyways. The DJ Mindset should be adopted, but high school you just need to experiment and have a few mess ups here and there. Don't take it so seriously. People are making this dating thing seem like a science. It is not. It's also scary having 15 year olds walking around DJing a girl and getting her number and a ******* like 10 minutes later.

I think that stuff is freaky, but others might think it is 'pimp.'

No player hatin' here. J ust the age thing you know. My 2 cents.
 

LuckyDevil6

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I'm not really taking it that seriously, I never try it a science anyways. However, I do agree with what you said about having the mindset.

It may seem like i'm saying not to go for your own HS girls, but thats not exactly what i meant. I was basically saying you need a different approach to how you act and not to be as agreessive when you talk to her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bling

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It's opened my eyes more. I know where I'm doing good and bad.


I do agree though. Some things said in the DJ Bible don't apply to HS.
 

Reach

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I think DJ stuff easily applies to high school because you get to meet a lot of people in a captive environment and practice new stuff on them, and they can't escape.

If you want to get with some of these girls, you need to isolate them so you can get a kiss or whatever, so you need to get them to meet you somewhere socially or go to a place in the school with you and no one else. High School is just like life but on a smaller scale.
 
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