"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What I've realized about HS

Worth it?

  • Yes it is.

    Votes: 5 33.3%
  • No it isn't.

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • Depends on situation?

    Votes: 8 53.3%

  • Total voters
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LuckyDevil6

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So I've been thinking about it.... all this stuff about picking up girls, getting their numbers, etc. and i've come to one conclusion, and I want feedback on what you all think too.

Is it just me, or does is seem like this stuff in HS would seem dumb to anyone?? I mean like imbetween classes and stuff... sure hitting on girls, but asking for their number? In my own experiences, it seems unnecessary because you'll be seeing these girls everyday.

I'm not saying that all this info is incorrect or pointless, but it seems not worth using in high school.

In my life, most of the girls i've got with happen to be from other schools, that i meet when i'm out with people, and able to 'game' on.

Feedback? Comments?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Layla

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I personally dont go for my HS girls, even though i can get them. I mean, your dating a girl who probably hooked up with your friend. It just feels wierd.

With that said, there are still people who go for their HS girls and yes, it is worth it.
 

Kerensky

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I don't think DJ 'techniques' should be used in high school. They're pretty lame anyways. The DJ Mindset should be adopted, but high school you just need to experiment and have a few mess ups here and there. Don't take it so seriously. People are making this dating thing seem like a science. It is not. It's also scary having 15 year olds walking around DJing a girl and getting her number and a ******* like 10 minutes later.

I think that stuff is freaky, but others might think it is 'pimp.'

No player hatin' here. J ust the age thing you know. My 2 cents.
 

LuckyDevil6

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I'm not really taking it that seriously, I never try it a science anyways. However, I do agree with what you said about having the mindset.

It may seem like i'm saying not to go for your own HS girls, but thats not exactly what i meant. I was basically saying you need a different approach to how you act and not to be as agreessive when you talk to her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bling

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It's opened my eyes more. I know where I'm doing good and bad.


I do agree though. Some things said in the DJ Bible don't apply to HS.
 

Reach

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I think DJ stuff easily applies to high school because you get to meet a lot of people in a captive environment and practice new stuff on them, and they can't escape.

If you want to get with some of these girls, you need to isolate them so you can get a kiss or whatever, so you need to get them to meet you somewhere socially or go to a place in the school with you and no one else. High School is just like life but on a smaller scale.
 
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