"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The best revenge is for an LTR ex to find out how successful/outgoing/happy you've become after she left you. It makes her wonder if she had made a mistake or just didn't give you enough of a chance. :-D

I'm experiencing this first hand. I got left for HER ex and I became all AFC... desperate, needy, whining, crying, etc. Well I got some balls, moved on, and bettered myself.... I sobered up, got a better job, got a personal trainer, took up flying lessons, booked a trip to Belize, worked on my game, got a new car and I've been dating hotter women than her... She's found out along the way (through a mutual friend and myspace) and is now curious about me again. I guess things didn't work out so well with your ex now did they?

Hahahahah! Don't even think about trying to start **** up with me again. It aint happenin.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DJohnson
Awesome bro. This is THE number one piece of advice I give men who have lost the power in the relationship or been dumped, LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL, and you did this EXTREMELY WELL..Hell I am even a tad jealous :)
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I hear ya! After I calmed down and accepted the fact that we weren't going to be together that's exactly what I told myself. I was going to do the things I had always wanted to do but for some reason found an excuse not to do them. It was very uncomfortable at first but it quickly became a feeling I wanted over and over again. I've all but forgotten about her. All of this has made her go "Whoa! What happened to that drunk loser I dumped awhile back?" She said I'd never change... well guess what sweetheart? Surprise!
 
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never stop bettering yourself either. you've definitely learn an important lesson. besides, how can you expect to pull amazing quality women when inside you're a mess.

life is much better when you're doing what you want and bettering yourself. women are such a secondary thought to all of that. once you have your inner game down then outer game is MUCH easier and MUCH more natural.
 
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