"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What Ive Learned...

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The best revenge is for an LTR ex to find out how successful/outgoing/happy you've become after she left you. It makes her wonder if she had made a mistake or just didn't give you enough of a chance. :-D

I'm experiencing this first hand. I got left for HER ex and I became all AFC... desperate, needy, whining, crying, etc. Well I got some balls, moved on, and bettered myself.... I sobered up, got a better job, got a personal trainer, took up flying lessons, booked a trip to Belize, worked on my game, got a new car and I've been dating hotter women than her... She's found out along the way (through a mutual friend and myspace) and is now curious about me again. I guess things didn't work out so well with your ex now did they?

Hahahahah! Don't even think about trying to start **** up with me again. It aint happenin.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by DJohnson
Awesome bro. This is THE number one piece of advice I give men who have lost the power in the relationship or been dumped, LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL, and you did this EXTREMELY WELL..Hell I am even a tad jealous :)
I hear ya! After I calmed down and accepted the fact that we weren't going to be together that's exactly what I told myself. I was going to do the things I had always wanted to do but for some reason found an excuse not to do them. It was very uncomfortable at first but it quickly became a feeling I wanted over and over again. I've all but forgotten about her. All of this has made her go "Whoa! What happened to that drunk loser I dumped awhile back?" She said I'd never change... well guess what sweetheart? Surprise!
 

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never stop bettering yourself either. you've definitely learn an important lesson. besides, how can you expect to pull amazing quality women when inside you're a mess.

life is much better when you're doing what you want and bettering yourself. women are such a secondary thought to all of that. once you have your inner game down then outer game is MUCH easier and MUCH more natural.
 
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