"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The best revenge is for an LTR ex to find out how successful/outgoing/happy you've become after she left you. It makes her wonder if she had made a mistake or just didn't give you enough of a chance. :-D

I'm experiencing this first hand. I got left for HER ex and I became all AFC... desperate, needy, whining, crying, etc. Well I got some balls, moved on, and bettered myself.... I sobered up, got a better job, got a personal trainer, took up flying lessons, booked a trip to Belize, worked on my game, got a new car and I've been dating hotter women than her... She's found out along the way (through a mutual friend and myspace) and is now curious about me again. I guess things didn't work out so well with your ex now did they?

Hahahahah! Don't even think about trying to start **** up with me again. It aint happenin.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by DJohnson
Awesome bro. This is THE number one piece of advice I give men who have lost the power in the relationship or been dumped, LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL, and you did this EXTREMELY WELL..Hell I am even a tad jealous :)
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I hear ya! After I calmed down and accepted the fact that we weren't going to be together that's exactly what I told myself. I was going to do the things I had always wanted to do but for some reason found an excuse not to do them. It was very uncomfortable at first but it quickly became a feeling I wanted over and over again. I've all but forgotten about her. All of this has made her go "Whoa! What happened to that drunk loser I dumped awhile back?" She said I'd never change... well guess what sweetheart? Surprise!
 
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never stop bettering yourself either. you've definitely learn an important lesson. besides, how can you expect to pull amazing quality women when inside you're a mess.

life is much better when you're doing what you want and bettering yourself. women are such a secondary thought to all of that. once you have your inner game down then outer game is MUCH easier and MUCH more natural.
 
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