"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is yout opinion about dealing with these common lines and situations

Who Dares Win

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Im sure everyone of you sooner or later heard from a girl in different situation these lines or encountered certain behaviours:

1)I know what you want and Im not like those other girls

2)Im telling you now, we're not gonna have sex togheter (sometime a tonight is added)

Then this behaviours which honestly I cant tell what they mean since in different occasions they led to different outcome:

1)you are with a mixed group of friend then the girl you are working on, simply get far from you and goes to talk/dance with other guys which they either know or dont either alone or with some other female friend.

Usually I would consider it a sign of lack of interest but in certain occasions I banged the girl, while in the others not, surely is a lack of respect even when they come back few minutes later.

2)you are alone with the girl you are working on, she plays hard to get more in the genuine uninterested range yet when you pull to her and hold her head to kiss her, there is resistante only toward the end instead of the beginning, plus she doesnt leave right after but just keeps playing like that.

What is your opinion about this situations and how to deal with them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just agree and amplify.

"You're a ladyboy?!"

"Yeah no way, I don't have sex with men"

But I think you can only really use these lines when you behave like this in the first place. If you don't have the tendency of joking like this, it may seem out of place and she'll just think you're a weird assh0le rather than the funny assh0le. Not sure though.
 

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What about the girl which get distance from you and dance/give attention to others only to come back much later?
 
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