"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is yout opinion about dealing with these common lines and situations

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Im sure everyone of you sooner or later heard from a girl in different situation these lines or encountered certain behaviours:

1)I know what you want and Im not like those other girls

2)Im telling you now, we're not gonna have sex togheter (sometime a tonight is added)

Then this behaviours which honestly I cant tell what they mean since in different occasions they led to different outcome:

1)you are with a mixed group of friend then the girl you are working on, simply get far from you and goes to talk/dance with other guys which they either know or dont either alone or with some other female friend.

Usually I would consider it a sign of lack of interest but in certain occasions I banged the girl, while in the others not, surely is a lack of respect even when they come back few minutes later.

2)you are alone with the girl you are working on, she plays hard to get more in the genuine uninterested range yet when you pull to her and hold her head to kiss her, there is resistante only toward the end instead of the beginning, plus she doesnt leave right after but just keeps playing like that.

What is your opinion about this situations and how to deal with them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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I just agree and amplify.

"You're a ladyboy?!"

"Yeah no way, I don't have sex with men"

But I think you can only really use these lines when you behave like this in the first place. If you don't have the tendency of joking like this, it may seem out of place and she'll just think you're a weird assh0le rather than the funny assh0le. Not sure though.
 

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What about the girl which get distance from you and dance/give attention to others only to come back much later?
 
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