"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is your WORST rejection story?

evasive

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some b.itch told me her number was 3

after a short conversation i asked her her phone number and the trick said 3
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i said something like flirtacious to a girl (who always flirts with me like real hard) and she goes

"wow a little escandaloso? dont abuse our mutual flirting-ness. i don't like you that much"

then i just told her to go do it with some other tool. she never gets any guys. no wonder. i always knew she was really immature but i never knew how to like fix it.
 

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hmm...don't have any bad flat out rejection stories. But I have dealt with a couple of attention craving *****es who just string you along and are vague in telling you were you stand. It's a complete waste of time, though not for them as their getting their fix; attention vampires.
 

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I always used to say to a girl how special she is to me ( bad thing, never say how much a girl means to you to her, it'l do you!!) "maybe Im not the special one"..
 

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same here. I don't usually get flat out rejected. more of a 'i'm too busy/sick/tired/other bullsh*t to do anything'.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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This was not exactly a rejection - I was having a good time with a couple of girls only to find out that they were prosti$tues. I mean for real. It is actually my worst nightmare to hit on a prosti$tue, this is what makes me hesistant to approach.
 

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it was either first or second grade, I told this hottie I liked her and she said "just because you like me doesn't mean I have to like you". Reality struck hard... I felt bad for a day or two, after that, it wasn't so bad.
 

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I don't hit on other girls anymore because I have a girlfriend, but a lot of guys hit on her and she has some good stories. Once she was at IHOP or something and the waiter kept flirting with her. When he asked her how she wanted her eggs, she said "unfertilized", and when she left the tip she also left a condom on the table with a note "so, in the event that you get to talk to a real, live woman, you don't jizz on her pancakes."

Another time we were taking a walk through town and this guy starts hitting on her right in front of me (wtf), trying to be all suave, and she turned to him and said, "The only reason you approached me at all is because you think I'm hot. If I was ugly you wouldn't even look at me. You have no interest whatsoever in my personality and worth as a human being. And you have the nerve to think I'd leave my boyfriend of three years for you...so that makes you both shallow and arrogant. NO, I will not go out with you, NO, I will not sleep with you, YES, you can go away now." :crackup:

God, I love her.
 

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I think mckindley started a thread about this a little while back. So you can check out the stories on that one too.
 

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sca_p said:
I don't hit on other girls anymore because I have a girlfriend, but a lot of guys hit on her and she has some good stories. Once she was at IHOP or something and the waiter kept flirting with her. When he asked her how she wanted her eggs, she said "unfertilized", and when she left the tip she also left a condom on the table with a note "so, in the event that you get to talk to a real, live woman, you don't jizz on her pancakes."

Another time we were taking a walk through town and this guy starts hitting on her right in front of me (wtf), trying to be all suave, and she turned to him and said, "The only reason you approached me at all is because you think I'm hot. If I was ugly you wouldn't even look at me. You have no interest whatsoever in my personality and worth as a human being. And you have the nerve to think I'd leave my boyfriend of three years for you...so that makes you both shallow and arrogant. NO, I will not go out with you, NO, I will not sleep with you, YES, you can go away now." :crackup:

God, I love her.
That is a keeper right ther man lol. Awesome
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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evasive said:
some b.itch told me her number was 3

after a short conversation i asked her her phone number and the trick said 3
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

LOL that made my day. Thanks man. :up:

eko said:
i said something like flirtacious to a girl (who always flirts with me like real hard) and she goes

"wow a little escandaloso? dont abuse our mutual flirting-ness. i don't like you that much"

then i just told her to go do it with some other tool. she never gets any guys. no wonder. i always knew she was really immature but i never knew how to like fix it.
Awww, did the poor girl hurt your feelings? Do you need a hug??

That was a sh!t-test. You failed. No big deal, just learn and do better next time.

Heman6 said:
hmm...don't have any bad flat out rejection stories. But I have dealt with a couple of attention craving *****es who just string you along and are vague in telling you were you stand. It's a complete waste of time, though not for them as their getting their fix; attention vampires.
All women are attention "vampires". It's your own damn fault for not escalating to see where you stand. It's like playing poker...if you just sit there scared and don't raise, you have no idea of how strong your hand is, so you just get suckered along in the pot until you either cave and fold or lose all your money and get beat.

MarkR said:
This was not exactly a rejection - I was having a good time with a couple of girls only to find out that they were prosti$tues. I mean for real. It is actually my worst nightmare to hit on a prosti$tue, this is what makes me hesistant to approach.
Whatever. You can't get a disease by talking to them. Running game on strippers, for example, is a good exercise. 1) they're usually very attractive women so you get to deal with your sexual nervousness and 2) they're NOT going to hook up with you, they expect you to know that, so there's no "threat of rejection".

It's the ONLY place where SHE is the one who wants to make the sale more than YOU. It's not immoral unless money changes hands.

Crank_It_Up said:
it was either first or second grade, I told this hottie I liked her and she said "just because you like me doesn't mean I have to like you". Reality struck hard... I felt bad for a day or two, after that, it wasn't so bad.
Oh well, it was elementary school. Get over it. If I had a dollar for every time I was rejected at elementary school age, I could've retired by 6th grade. I can see where it'd hurt. Get over it.
 

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This is awhile back, when I first started approaching and sarging. I was at an upscale bar (called Mix lounge) in Las Vegas, approaching a women assuming in her 30's. I was inexperienced and all, and walked around her a few times to gather enough courage to talk to her. When I eventually started talking to her, in the middle of my sentence, she puts me down and in a *****y tone said "the FIRST thing you should ever say when talking to a women is to introduce yourself." That pretty much stopped me dead at that point, shot me down with a head shot. I somehow was stupid enough to continue talking to her, lowering myself even further and destroying any shred of dignity I had left.

Good times...
 

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MarkR said:
This was not exactly a rejection - I was having a good time with a couple of girls only to find out that they were prosti$tues. I mean for real. It is actually my worst nightmare to hit on a prosti$tue, this is what makes me hesistant to approach.
The more you approach, the better you can read these girls. I bet you'd be able to tell the next one you run into. I cold approached some girl at school. It was cool cause I got to work on my game, but then I went to a bar and saw her on the corner. ROFL. she told me not to tell anyone at school.
 

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sca_p said:
I don't hit on other girls anymore because I have a girlfriend, but a lot of guys hit on her and she has some good stories. Once she was at IHOP or something and the waiter kept flirting with her. When he asked her how she wanted her eggs, she said "unfertilized", and when she left the tip she also left a condom on the table with a note "so, in the event that you get to talk to a real, live woman, you don't jizz on her pancakes."
LMAO!! :crackup: Sounds like you got a keeper there
 
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