"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is your way of reminding yourself that you're the prize and you should be won?

SeymourCake

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For me, it's just being prideful of myself that I'm a man and kicking whatever pedestal that's beneath her.

Being a man should be the best feeling every male goes through when they wake up in the morning. :rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigneil

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As Meast does, I work out, then look in the mirror with no shirt and check out my abs and veins. I can make every vein on my whole upper body show if I flex. Like a Frank Frazetta painting minus the battle Axe, dragons and naked chicks.

Also, I dress up and go out and have beautiful women compliment me. I'm telling you guys, you need to try wearing a bow tie. I've never worn one and not a beauty throw herself at me. Tonight I got the phone number of a girl 17 years my junior who was with her DAD (and no, not at a strip bar).
 

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Well for me, I look around the club or the bar and I see all those sad dudes, protecting themselves with their beers and I realize that I don't need to be drunk to dance or to talk to girls. I also don't care about outcome of interactions.

Sometimes the girls will come to me and make it easy. Sometimes it will be difficult and I will get rejected. But I remind myself that the reason I'm getting results it's because I'm having fun without the help of any girls and I don't care as much as before.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko

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I thought it was funny.
 

Desdinova

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Currently, it's seeing my gf's sister's jealousy. She apparently had a big crush on me, and is now bitter about me being with her younger, hotter sister :D

There's also the women who would love a night with me, and the ones who were angry and devastated when I broke up with them.

These are things that indirectly tell you that you ARE the prize.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko

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Desdinova said:
Currently, it's seeing my gf's sister's jealousy. She apparently had a big crush on me, and is now bitter about me being with her younger, hotter sister
Lol, how old is the older sister, Des?
Side note: You must have gotten divorced at just the right time, you seem to be doing very well since.

Desdinova said:
There's also the women who would love a night with me, and the ones who were angry and devastated when I broke up with them.

These are things that indirectly tell you that you ARE the prize.
"I am the prize" is a great mindset to have. Only problem is, in nature males are generally the pursuer while the female is the chooser. That doesn't necessarily negate the male being the prize, however.

To really be the prize though, you should have evidence that you are pursued, like Desdinova here.

Some of these answers strike me as a little weak though. I look in the mirror and flex? Really?
 

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  • Whenever I go past a couple and the girl is giving me the "oooh upgrade" look while totally forgetting the man she's currently with.
  • Whenever I'm out with my girl and hotter chicks are giving her jealous looks, you can tell they're thinking "how the hell did she land THAT?" Tend to be chicks who think that a pretty face is more than enough to counteract their rotten personalities.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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