"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what is your take on facebook?

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garruk

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what are the benefits of adding a girl on a facebook?

i went to vegas last weekend and went buckwild and met a girl who lives about 2 or 3 hours away from me, we made out breifly until her friends "had to go". i got her number but i dont really plan on calling because of the distance.

the thing is: we are both involved in greek life and so eventually i will see her again, maybe 2 or 3 times a year.



anyways, im going on a tangent here, she texted me to add her on facebook but im wondering... why bother? what are the benefits of facebook? thoughts?

in my case, i do use facebook, but not too often. i have no facts about myself, no about me, no "veiw more pics" or any of that. i do have a lot of "friends" though just because i am affiliated with a fraternity but im really not a typical frat guy (at least i dont think so).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Might as well man. Just don't try and pursue anything. Keep it on lock so you can have a good time every two or three times a year you see her. If you know what I mean.
 
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The benefits of facebook:

You're able to find out more details about her. It can help you build rapport by talking about things that she's interested in.

You can demonstrate your social proof with pictures of you with friends or other hot women.

You are able to show the girl you are outgoing, exciting, and fun by posting pics of you skydiving, rock climbing etc...

The negatives of facebook:

If you have lots of info about your personal life on there, it would cause you to lose your mystique.

Different plates you are spinning may find out about each other.

Feel free to add to the list....
 
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I use facebook at least a few times a week. I think it's great for social networking and girls.

A girl I met a few years ago just found me and added me today. After wall posting back and forth for a few minutes, I got her cell.

This to me is the biggest benefit of using facebook as far as getting girls is concerned.

You can also use it to drop a line and reconnect with people.
 
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