"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what is your take on facebook?

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garruk

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what are the benefits of adding a girl on a facebook?

i went to vegas last weekend and went buckwild and met a girl who lives about 2 or 3 hours away from me, we made out breifly until her friends "had to go". i got her number but i dont really plan on calling because of the distance.

the thing is: we are both involved in greek life and so eventually i will see her again, maybe 2 or 3 times a year.



anyways, im going on a tangent here, she texted me to add her on facebook but im wondering... why bother? what are the benefits of facebook? thoughts?

in my case, i do use facebook, but not too often. i have no facts about myself, no about me, no "veiw more pics" or any of that. i do have a lot of "friends" though just because i am affiliated with a fraternity but im really not a typical frat guy (at least i dont think so).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Might as well man. Just don't try and pursue anything. Keep it on lock so you can have a good time every two or three times a year you see her. If you know what I mean.
 
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The benefits of facebook:

You're able to find out more details about her. It can help you build rapport by talking about things that she's interested in.

You can demonstrate your social proof with pictures of you with friends or other hot women.

You are able to show the girl you are outgoing, exciting, and fun by posting pics of you skydiving, rock climbing etc...

The negatives of facebook:

If you have lots of info about your personal life on there, it would cause you to lose your mystique.

Different plates you are spinning may find out about each other.

Feel free to add to the list....
 
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I use facebook at least a few times a week. I think it's great for social networking and girls.

A girl I met a few years ago just found me and added me today. After wall posting back and forth for a few minutes, I got her cell.

This to me is the biggest benefit of using facebook as far as getting girls is concerned.

You can also use it to drop a line and reconnect with people.
 
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