DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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10% or less..lol sad times
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lucifero said:Nah, I'm pretty Awesome.
Nice looking, muscular, confident, funny, intelligent, invincible, flexable, dont give a **** about rejection-flakes-rudeness, etc.
Even with all of that, my record is terrible. I dont give a ****, but I'm just telling the truth...I also approach a lot of women and I have more numbers than I can call (My avalible free-time is limited)...:woo:
Well then you should have worked your way up to a supermodel by now.San Jose California said:100% so far, never had a girl reject me
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Zarky said:The #1 Trick for men is to determine how "easy" a woman is. Once you get to the point that you can pull chicks more or less reliably, you must hone your skills so you can ask the right questions and make the right observations to tell you whether the girl is going to put out quickly or if she's going to string you along.
This is priority #1 for guys who have relatively tight game. Learn to recognize easy chicks. For me, if they don't put out on the first 'date' (or whatever other get-together you've arranged), then they're done.