DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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10% or less..lol sad times
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What is your success rate with women?
- Thread starter Lucifero
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Jeffst1980
Master Don Juan
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If your success rate is high, you aren't approaching enough. You should be aiming "out of your league" if you want to gain skills, too.
It doesn't matter if your rate is 1 out of 100 or worse, because rejection does not matter. A single act of getting rejected has no impact on future encounters.
It helps to get the idea of being a "pimp" or "ladies man" out of your head, too. Trying to live up to some bogus "reputation" will force you to play it safe to avoid disproving this reality. You should have the mindset of someone that truly doesn't care what other people think of him, and especially what random girls think of him.
It doesn't matter if your rate is 1 out of 100 or worse, because rejection does not matter. A single act of getting rejected has no impact on future encounters.
It helps to get the idea of being a "pimp" or "ladies man" out of your head, too. Trying to live up to some bogus "reputation" will force you to play it safe to avoid disproving this reality. You should have the mindset of someone that truly doesn't care what other people think of him, and especially what random girls think of him.
Jeffst1980
Master Don Juan
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Lucifero said:
Just saw this....don't worry, you're doing fine. The goal is to create options, not necessarily to improve your hit rate. The fact that you are getting lots of numbers is a good thing; now, you just have to push the interaction as far as it will go EVERY TIME. Start going out near your house and you'll have an easier time bringing girls back.
Alex DeLarge
Master Don Juan
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In my past 10 approaches I have gotten 10 phone numbers, hangouts/dates with 5, sex with 2 of them.
The dates part is sort of my fault though. I tend to lose interest pretty quickly and do not have a lot of time between work and summer courses. I am not one of those people that sits right by my phone all day either so I tend to miss a lot of texts or just forget to reply.
The dates part is sort of my fault though. I tend to lose interest pretty quickly and do not have a lot of time between work and summer courses. I am not one of those people that sits right by my phone all day either so I tend to miss a lot of texts or just forget to reply.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
For getting dates or lunches I'm at about 25% maybe a bit higher. Granted I don't ask out that many girls.
For getting a kiss or more I'm at 0%.
For getting a kiss or more I'm at 0%.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Zarky said:
BRILLIANT POST
but Zarky if a chick doesn't put out the first night you really don't give her a second date mate?