What is your opinion on women having male friends?

[speakeasy]

You'd be surprise to see how many guys actually have true female friends, where the male is not looking to fvck her.

That's because the guys are probably not physically attracted to them.

There is also plenty of chicks I met who are on that "i don't get along with other girls" tip.

That's a red flag right there.

 

[gherald]

man and woman can never be juz friends...

 

[HaremMasterThomas]

Is it OK for a guy to have an Elephant as a friend, not all friendships have to be sexual.

 

[jtrain 289]

Thier not friends dont get jealous but just so you know their not friends. If anything happens to the 2 of you. She's gonna go right to those friends of hers. When a women calls a guy her friends its not her freinds its either someone she could h/u with when she wants or an afc that she feels sorry for. Suprisingly women have more ****buddys than men. any guy thats not an afc thats friends with a women is percieved as basically a ****buddy to the women. If you dont belive me read this thread from yesterday.

Alright here's the situation. I was in a LTR with this girl for just over 5 years. About two weeks ago, her and her friend went to a pub one night and she told me they met a couple guys that were 'just friends'. Figuring she was just trying to make me jealous, I ignored it and told her it was fine.

Fast forward to a week later, last Wednesday. She is moving into a new apartment with this same friend she went out with, and instead of asking me to help her move, she asks these two random guys they met. We get into a fight, and 'break up'. I find out that after this, she spent the entire weekend with one of these guys, staying at his place overnight, sucking him off, not even 2 days after our 5 year relationship ended.

I don't know what to think right now, I'm so sick to my stomach. She was never like this, she always used to look down on her friends for pulling things like this, and now it's like a light switch has been flicked and she's a totally different person than the girl I spent the last 5 years of my life with.

I know I should just go out and try and see other girls, but I feel so disgusted I don't even want to make an effort for anything right now.

 

[jtrain 289]

Thier not friends dont get jealous but just so you know their not friends. If anything happens to the 2 of you. She's gonna go right to those friends of hers. When a women calls a guy her friends its not her freinds its either someone she could h/u with when she wants or an afc that she feels sorry for. Suprisingly women have more ****buddys than men. any guy thats not an afc thats friends with a women is percieved as basically a ****buddy to the women. If you dont belive me read this thread from yesterday.

Alright here's the situation. I was in a LTR with this girl for just over 5 years. About two weeks ago, her and her friend went to a pub one night and she told me they met a couple guys that were 'just friends'. Figuring she was just trying to make me jealous, I ignored it and told her it was fine.

Fast forward to a week later, last Wednesday. She is moving into a new apartment with this same friend she went out with, and instead of asking me to help her move, she asks these two random guys they met. We get into a fight, and 'break up'. I find out that after this, she spent the entire weekend with one of these guys, staying at his place overnight, sucking him off, not even 2 days after our 5 year relationship ended.

I don't know what to think right now, I'm so sick to my stomach. She was never like this, she always used to look down on her friends for pulling things like this, and now it's like a light switch has been flicked and she's a totally different person than the girl I spent the last 5 years of my life with.

I know I should just go out and try and see other girls, but I feel so disgusted I don't even want to make an effort for anything right now.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

I never believe it's the old friends you have to worry about, it's the new friends. I once had a girfriend that told me about her temporary break up with the previous boyfriend: Things were going oaky with the boyfriend, when she started talking to a new guy at work. They would talk at work all the time. Then the conversations started taking place on the phone, after work, for 6 hours at a time. Cut to a month later: On a Saturday, her and the boyfriend get into a big blow up. The new "friend" asks her to go out to cheer her up. When he takes her home for the night, the boyfriend is there, trying to reconcile with her. She gets back in the car with the "friend" and asked him to take her to a motel because she can't stay home. One thing leads to another and she has sex with the guy that night. She calls the guy the next morning (Sunday) and the guy is not really interested in her anymore. She was back with the boyfriend the next day.

Do you think she mentioned this one nighter to the boyfriend? The answer is yes! When they had a big fight and she wanted to hurt him so he would leave her. I never saw her the same way again after that story.

 

[HaremMasterThomas]

That's because the guys are probably not physically attracted to them.

I don't want to fvck many of my own personal female friends for this reason, you should be able to be a friend of a woman without having to fvck her, if you don't find a female friend attractive why would you want to fvck her anyway.