"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is your opinion on a 45 yr old woman who does this

soxfan52

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Need yout opinion if you think this woman is crazy or thought. Like i said she is 45 and was divorced 3 yrs ago. Said her husband cheated.
Anyway was talkng to her seemed very nice but she had like streaks of pink running through her hair, not tons of it but you could definately see it. For some reason i right away thought that is crazy on a 45 yr old.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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teacha

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yep, she seems pretty crazy to me (might be BPD)...i would stay away from her if i were you.
 

terran2k

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what if she did it for some type of breast cancer thing or something? you guys are so quick to judge, but b!tch if a girl does it to you.
why don't you talk to her, find out about her, see what the streak is all about.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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soxfan52

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terran2k said:
what if she did it for some type of breast cancer thing or something? you guys are so quick to judge, but b!tch if a girl does it to you.
why don't you talk to her, find out about her, see what the streak is all about.

I ask if was for cancer awareness she said no she said she just likes to put pink in her hair it makes her feel good.
 

soxfan52

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teacha said:
yep, she seems pretty crazy to me (might be BPD)...i would stay away from her if i were you.

Why would associate that with BPD?
 

terran2k

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oh, great, you're on the ball then. just take her out and enjoy her, if she start to show the crazy, then bail.
 

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There are many overly judgmental misogynist ****s on this forum. But hey, if she has pink in her air she probably has AIDS!
 

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soxfan52 said:
Like i said she is 45 and was divorced 3 yrs ago. Said her husband cheated.
Sorry, I didn't even bothering to read the rest since my crazy b8tch radar blew up in my face.

If she is into you, then f8ck her. Just don't get too attached or expect it to go anywhere.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All women color their hair. I wouldn't next her based on that alone.

That said, the pink does make it sound like she's trying to recapture her youth or something. I'd consider it a yellow flag, but I wouldn't let it stop me from getting to know her further if that's what I wanted to do. Just be alert for more signs.
 

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zekko said:
All women color their hair. I wouldn't next her based on that alone.

That said, the pink does make it sound like she's trying to recapture her youth or something. I'd consider it a yellow flag, but I wouldn't let it stop me from getting to seduce her further if that's what I wanted to do. Just be alert for more signs.
FYP. To hell with getting to "know" women specially ones that are close to be put out to pasture. If she is hot for a milf just do it whether she has pink her or not. Then quit it.
 

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she likes a bit of pink in her hair? big deal! she is willing to experiment, she isnt crazy, just adopting a new image, go for it
 
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