"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is your opinion on a 45 yr old woman who does this

soxfan52

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Need yout opinion if you think this woman is crazy or thought. Like i said she is 45 and was divorced 3 yrs ago. Said her husband cheated.
Anyway was talkng to her seemed very nice but she had like streaks of pink running through her hair, not tons of it but you could definately see it. For some reason i right away thought that is crazy on a 45 yr old.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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teacha

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yep, she seems pretty crazy to me (might be BPD)...i would stay away from her if i were you.
 

terran2k

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what if she did it for some type of breast cancer thing or something? you guys are so quick to judge, but b!tch if a girl does it to you.
why don't you talk to her, find out about her, see what the streak is all about.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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soxfan52

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terran2k said:
what if she did it for some type of breast cancer thing or something? you guys are so quick to judge, but b!tch if a girl does it to you.
why don't you talk to her, find out about her, see what the streak is all about.

I ask if was for cancer awareness she said no she said she just likes to put pink in her hair it makes her feel good.
 

soxfan52

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teacha said:
yep, she seems pretty crazy to me (might be BPD)...i would stay away from her if i were you.

Why would associate that with BPD?
 

terran2k

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oh, great, you're on the ball then. just take her out and enjoy her, if she start to show the crazy, then bail.
 

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There are many overly judgmental misogynist ****s on this forum. But hey, if she has pink in her air she probably has AIDS!
 

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soxfan52 said:
Like i said she is 45 and was divorced 3 yrs ago. Said her husband cheated.
Sorry, I didn't even bothering to read the rest since my crazy b8tch radar blew up in my face.

If she is into you, then f8ck her. Just don't get too attached or expect it to go anywhere.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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All women color their hair. I wouldn't next her based on that alone.

That said, the pink does make it sound like she's trying to recapture her youth or something. I'd consider it a yellow flag, but I wouldn't let it stop me from getting to know her further if that's what I wanted to do. Just be alert for more signs.
 

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zekko said:
All women color their hair. I wouldn't next her based on that alone.

That said, the pink does make it sound like she's trying to recapture her youth or something. I'd consider it a yellow flag, but I wouldn't let it stop me from getting to seduce her further if that's what I wanted to do. Just be alert for more signs.
FYP. To hell with getting to "know" women specially ones that are close to be put out to pasture. If she is hot for a milf just do it whether she has pink her or not. Then quit it.
 

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she likes a bit of pink in her hair? big deal! she is willing to experiment, she isnt crazy, just adopting a new image, go for it
 
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