"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is your opinion on a 45 yr old woman who does this

soxfan52

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Need yout opinion if you think this woman is crazy or thought. Like i said she is 45 and was divorced 3 yrs ago. Said her husband cheated.
Anyway was talkng to her seemed very nice but she had like streaks of pink running through her hair, not tons of it but you could definately see it. For some reason i right away thought that is crazy on a 45 yr old.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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teacha

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yep, she seems pretty crazy to me (might be BPD)...i would stay away from her if i were you.
 

terran2k

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what if she did it for some type of breast cancer thing or something? you guys are so quick to judge, but b!tch if a girl does it to you.
why don't you talk to her, find out about her, see what the streak is all about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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soxfan52

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terran2k said:
what if she did it for some type of breast cancer thing or something? you guys are so quick to judge, but b!tch if a girl does it to you.
why don't you talk to her, find out about her, see what the streak is all about.

I ask if was for cancer awareness she said no she said she just likes to put pink in her hair it makes her feel good.
 

soxfan52

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teacha said:
yep, she seems pretty crazy to me (might be BPD)...i would stay away from her if i were you.

Why would associate that with BPD?
 

terran2k

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oh, great, you're on the ball then. just take her out and enjoy her, if she start to show the crazy, then bail.
 

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There are many overly judgmental misogynist ****s on this forum. But hey, if she has pink in her air she probably has AIDS!
 

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soxfan52 said:
Like i said she is 45 and was divorced 3 yrs ago. Said her husband cheated.
Sorry, I didn't even bothering to read the rest since my crazy b8tch radar blew up in my face.

If she is into you, then f8ck her. Just don't get too attached or expect it to go anywhere.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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All women color their hair. I wouldn't next her based on that alone.

That said, the pink does make it sound like she's trying to recapture her youth or something. I'd consider it a yellow flag, but I wouldn't let it stop me from getting to know her further if that's what I wanted to do. Just be alert for more signs.
 

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zekko said:
All women color their hair. I wouldn't next her based on that alone.

That said, the pink does make it sound like she's trying to recapture her youth or something. I'd consider it a yellow flag, but I wouldn't let it stop me from getting to seduce her further if that's what I wanted to do. Just be alert for more signs.
FYP. To hell with getting to "know" women specially ones that are close to be put out to pasture. If she is hot for a milf just do it whether she has pink her or not. Then quit it.
 

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she likes a bit of pink in her hair? big deal! she is willing to experiment, she isnt crazy, just adopting a new image, go for it
 
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