"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is your number one deal breaker when it comes to women?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Huffman

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Inability or unwillingness to be vulnerable
Women say that alot but it's really tough for a guy... guys definitely shouldn't show vulnerability too often or too early.
I get that you want to point out trust and emotional connection though, which is hard to come by.
 

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1) Disrespect
2) Putting me second in any capacity or low interest
3) Whorish behavior
4) Money-hungry
5) Classless

In that order.
 

zekko

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Picking from what others have said:
1) Deceit - I've always had a problem with dishonesty
2) AWing - not the kind of chick I want to be with
3) As Espi pointed out, there has to be a physical attraction there or nothing gets off the ground
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Glumix

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Women say that alot but it's really tough for a guy... guys definitely shouldn't show vulnerability too often or too early.
I get that you want to point out trust and emotional connection though, which is hard to come by.
Before talking about vulnerability we should define it because there is often a gap between what one and another think it is. For me it is not at all about showing weaknesses. But that's for another thread.
 

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Where I'm from we call it:

'being too
Hollywood'

I absolutely dread, loathe women who carry themselves in a stuck up manner. Just because you are pretty does not mean you're God's gift to the world. You're just like everyone else. Sadly I am the only one who enforces this belief nowadays.
I live in Atlanta, and that's where I learned the term in 2009! Oh, I enforce it too! The board here knows I don't play.

Being too Hollywood is one thing I can't stand. A few others:
1. Lack of humor (boring/ too serious)
2. Lack of sexual interest/ desire
3. Gold digger/ Attention wh0ring all day
4. Plays too many games (Constant testing and ball busting can count as this.)
5. Dik-teaser (Anything friendzone related falls here too.) Hell, teasing me to where I get soft, then asking for it hours later, gee, I wonder why I'm not getting hard! I'm onto another plate!
 
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