All throughout this site and the manosphere/PUA sites in general you'll hear phrases like "never put women ahead of your mission", "your mission should be what you pursue not women." I've been thinking about this and I can't think of a reason to have some grand mission. I'm young so this may change but my goal in life is simply to squeeze as much enjoyment out of it as possible while keeping stress to a minimum. Fellow DJ's, what is your mission? Get as many lays as possible? Create a successful business? Raise a family? Take over the free world? What is your main goal in life, one that you put above women and everything else?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What Is Your Mission?
- Thread starter JoeMarron
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
To own an island and build it up to a select civilisation where only people who are accepted by the board will be permitted entrance. Eventually becoming a utopia with no such thing as currency. Rather than tv, Internet and video games everybody exercises, socialises and helps one and another. I'll live as a king and die as a god.
But no seriously my short term mission is to yield an income outside of work (I.e: property) meaning I have constant income finding my travelling around the world. Long term to finish my novel and get published. Learn all I can, be the best me I can be (physically, mentally, socially, intellectually) and become a well-known man, wide circle of aquintances and able to live comfortably with no stress, outside the rat race. Women would be just an extension of that.
But no seriously my short term mission is to yield an income outside of work (I.e: property) meaning I have constant income finding my travelling around the world. Long term to finish my novel and get published. Learn all I can, be the best me I can be (physically, mentally, socially, intellectually) and become a well-known man, wide circle of aquintances and able to live comfortably with no stress, outside the rat race. Women would be just an extension of that.
VikingKing
Banned
World domination.
TheException
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 17, 2013
- Messages
- 1,109
- Reaction score
- 111
You must have been part of Occupy Wall Street right?Bizzle13 said:
Im college aged as well and have two pages of notebook paper filled out with goals....some long term....some short term, so lets not use age as an excuse for not really knowing where to go. That being said....I think its important that your goals come naturally, they SHOULD NOT be forced. Ive categorized my goals into the following:JoeMarron said:
-health
-career
-knowledge/education
-hobbies
-self defense
Within each are specific things to accomplish with a checkbox at the end of each one....feels great when you get to check one off.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
denverfan110
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 9, 2013
- Messages
- 105
- Reaction score
- 6
To enjoy my 20s without becoming as jaded as some of the posters here
Jair213
Master Don Juan
+1denverfan110 said:
never quit bodybuilding. make it a part of my life and built the greatest physique i could possibly built.
start college soon, get a succesfull carreer going.
socialize more with people, make friends.
the least of my worries is woman. a lay here and there would be cool but i dont seek it.