All throughout this site and the manosphere/PUA sites in general you'll hear phrases like "never put women ahead of your mission", "your mission should be what you pursue not women." I've been thinking about this and I can't think of a reason to have some grand mission. I'm young so this may change but my goal in life is simply to squeeze as much enjoyment out of it as possible while keeping stress to a minimum. Fellow DJ's, what is your mission? Get as many lays as possible? Create a successful business? Raise a family? Take over the free world? What is your main goal in life, one that you put above women and everything else?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What Is Your Mission?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
To own an island and build it up to a select civilisation where only people who are accepted by the board will be permitted entrance. Eventually becoming a utopia with no such thing as currency. Rather than tv, Internet and video games everybody exercises, socialises and helps one and another. I'll live as a king and die as a god.
But no seriously my short term mission is to yield an income outside of work (I.e: property) meaning I have constant income finding my travelling around the world. Long term to finish my novel and get published. Learn all I can, be the best me I can be (physically, mentally, socially, intellectually) and become a well-known man, wide circle of aquintances and able to live comfortably with no stress, outside the rat race. Women would be just an extension of that.
But no seriously my short term mission is to yield an income outside of work (I.e: property) meaning I have constant income finding my travelling around the world. Long term to finish my novel and get published. Learn all I can, be the best me I can be (physically, mentally, socially, intellectually) and become a well-known man, wide circle of aquintances and able to live comfortably with no stress, outside the rat race. Women would be just an extension of that.
VikingKing
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World domination.
TheException
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You must have been part of Occupy Wall Street right?Bizzle13 said:
Im college aged as well and have two pages of notebook paper filled out with goals....some long term....some short term, so lets not use age as an excuse for not really knowing where to go. That being said....I think its important that your goals come naturally, they SHOULD NOT be forced. Ive categorized my goals into the following:JoeMarron said:
-health
-career
-knowledge/education
-hobbies
-self defense
Within each are specific things to accomplish with a checkbox at the end of each one....feels great when you get to check one off.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
denverfan110
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To enjoy my 20s without becoming as jaded as some of the posters here
Jair213
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+1denverfan110 said:
never quit bodybuilding. make it a part of my life and built the greatest physique i could possibly built.
start college soon, get a succesfull carreer going.
socialize more with people, make friends.
the least of my worries is woman. a lay here and there would be cool but i dont seek it.