here's what i think about when i approach girls
1) before approaching.
u always feel fear or some sort of pressure before u approach the chick, we all do. so banish those thoughts instantly. think only about the positive outcomes, not the negative. also, remember that she is only a girl, who is likely alot physically weaker than u, and is not a monster. she cannot kill u, the worst she can do is say "no". and if she does reject u, remember there r tons more girls out there to game, so no lose on ur part at all. u actually gain because u had experience and u had the balls to even approach her. for every girl out there that says no, there are some who will say yes. find the yes's, forget the no's.
have sumthin ur proud of or that was really tough but u pulled it off? think of urself in that moment, and how confident u felt. think if u could pull sumthin like that off, then how hard could walking up to a chick be?
2)during approach
same as first, but during the convo, just have a confident and calm mindset. dont put to much pressure on urself or u will be uneasy and nervous, and she will feel that and want to get away from u. jus remember that u r the man, and she is just a girl, who cannot harm u. remember, calm, and confident. bt most of all, just have fun, u are not getting graded on this. so just have fun, think of it as a game, cuz really, that's all it is. if ur having a good time, so will she.
the confidence mindset is always key. u have to know with in urself that u can do this and will succed eventually. and that a girls opinion or rejection doesnt matter, as it is just a minor set back. u cant be scare of them, they are small creatures whos greatest weapon is saying "no". how harmful can that be? go out, game girls, have fun, and be the man.
