"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is your idea of an HB?

Die Hard

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I was just wondering... When I think of my 'game' and improving it, I really just think of HB's (8 or higher). Whenever I manage to pick up a HB6 or HB7, I don't really feel like it's an achievement or something to be proud of. I actually know that I can pick a lot of those up, I don't get nervous around them and don't have to make a real effort, they don't require 'skill'.

So I was thinking: Suppose the girls I consider a 6 or 7, are an 8 or 9 in the eyes of most other guys (I know from friends that my standard is pretty high when it comes to looks), that would mean that when I pick them up (which doesn't feel like an achievement to me), most other guys would think of that as an achievement. Maybe my game is much better than I think it is, lol.

Here's my question: Would you guys show me some pics of girls you've picked up in recent years, that you feel kinda 'proud' of? Or even just girls you're trying to pick up now (but didn't have the balls to approach yet, haha), that you feel would be an achievement if you pull it off.

I'll be back later to show some pics of my own :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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everywomanshero

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I certainly think looks matter lot. When I think of the women I really enjoyed being with, they are all quite attractive. However, there is another element, too. They were fun to be with and were not boring people.

Fun + Hot = Good Time

How hot is hot enough? I guess that depends on the person. Either she's hot enough or she's not, and only you can know that.

Posting pics of exes or current girls here is probably not such a good idea.
 

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Die Hard said:
I was just wondering... When I think of my 'game' and improving it, I really just think of HB's (8 or higher). Whenever I manage to pick up a HB6 or HB7, I don't really feel like it's an achievement or something to be proud of. I actually know that I can pick a lot of those up, I don't get nervous around them and don't have to make a real effort, they don't require 'skill'.

So I was thinking: Suppose the girls I consider a 6 or 7, are an 8 or 9 in the eyes of most other guys (I know from friends that my standard is pretty high when it comes to looks), that would mean that when I pick them up (which doesn't feel like an achievement to me), most other guys would think of that as an achievement. Maybe my game is much better than I think it is, lol.
Just keep improving your game and keep getting girls that are better, in YOUR eyes.

Why do you care what other guys think about the girls you get? That is very girly. The goal is not to have *better* game than other guys, the goal is just to be happy. Your competition is yourself.
 

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Die Hard said:
I was just wondering... When I think of my 'game' and improving it, I really just think of HB's (8 or higher). Whenever I manage to pick up a HB6 or HB7, I don't really feel like it's an achievement or something to be proud of. I actually know that I can pick a lot of those up, I don't get nervous around them and don't have to make a real effort, they don't require 'skill'.

So I was thinking: Suppose the girls I consider a 6 or 7, are an 8 or 9 in the eyes of most other guys (I know from friends that my standard is pretty high when it comes to looks), that would mean that when I pick them up (which doesn't feel like an achievement to me), most other guys would think of that as an achievement. Maybe my game is much better than I think it is, lol.

Here's my question: Would you guys show me some pics of girls you've picked up in recent years, that you feel kinda 'proud' of? Or even just girls you're trying to pick up now (but didn't have the balls to approach yet, haha), that you feel would be an achievement if you pull it off.

I'll be back later to show some pics of my own :up:
Anyone I would smash and actually tell my friends about is an HB
 

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I've had several chances to lose the V card with women that weren't only not "hot" to the majority, but did little to nothing for me physically. I refuse to go that route for several reasons...first, the lack of attraction...second, the lack of accomplishment (not so much getting a HB, but getting a girl I want and I find attractive.) I have weird taste, but I never like women that would be 3/4 to the majority (butt ugly women, chubby women and the like.)

My dream women are Gillian Anderson (Scully from X-Files), Jane Leeves (Daphne from Frasier) and Peri Gilpin (Roz from Frasier)...I've heard each of them been called, hot, beautiful, cute, average, and even ugly by some people. To me, it doesn't matter.

That being said, I usually don't like the magazine/playboy type of women. Just not my look anyway, and the attitude that comes with it makes it worse.

I like women with nice, friendly faces, and nice bodies. I don't like the whole snobby/hot look.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, here's some examples :D. Note that I'm only rating them by their faces, leaving their body out of the equation. By the way, no girl is an HB10, coz that would sorta mean 'most beautiful in the world'.

The first one is a true HB9 to me, it doesn't get much better than this. This is what I'm becoming a DJ for, haha: http://yfrog.com/eu1055035041572nf1j

This one is an HB8 or 8.5 to me: http://yfrog.com/jo10054699225eqox2j

This one is also an HB8 or HB8.5 too, she's handsome but also sexy: http://yfrog.com/1210271092865qcm1j

This one is also an HB8 or 8.5 to me, she has something b!tchy about her but still quite goodlooking and sexy: http://yfrog.com/7f10325682035c7la2j

So that's the type of girls I really aim for. For this type of girl, I really need to make an effort: I look pretty good but not enough to create attraction with these, I really need to have game to pick one of these up.



And then there are the average girls, who often feel attracted to me without me having to focus on my game. Girls like this:

An HB7, her face looks kinda stupid but she's not ugly. If she has a nice body, I'd fvck her but I wouldn't feel like I've accomplished anything. http://yfrog.com/ed9132814665tmf4j

Another HB7. Not ugly at all but she just looks....meh. I'd turn her down if she came onto me. http://yfrog.com/i38072769735r4h6j


Oh and here's a pic of my BPD ex. She was a real monster, but looks can be deceiving lol: http://yfrog.com/9dbeeeej
 

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There is only fvckable and unfvckable when it comes to pure attraction. Now what you choose because of what you want others to think and to represent yourself is a different matter. I know there have been women who were less than acceptably attractive that I found myself having a thing for, but I wouldn't take them home to meet my mama or around my friends. Fvckable and presentable are two different things.
 

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ya see? beauty is in th eyes of the beholder.... YOU. go for what you like....me and my buds always differ on hotness, go for what you like
 

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Warrior got it.

There's either attraction or there isn't.

Me and my buddies also take it one step further. (Although it started out kinda as a joke, but it's so true.)

1.) Yes, I would absolutely fvck her.
2.) I would fvck her, but I would keep it on DL.
3.) I would have to be extremely wasted.
4.) No.
5.) FVCK NO!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think some of you misunderstand my meaning. I'm not considering to change my standard or asking for you guys to validate my standard or....whatever!. I'm not looking for advice of any sort, I'm just wondering what you guys go after and am curious to see what girls you would consider an 'achievement' for yourself in case you succeed at picking them up.

In short: More pics, less advice, please :up:
 
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