"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What Is Your Goal?

What Is Your Goal With Girls?

  • Get A Girlfriend

    Votes: 3 37.5%

  • Be A Player

    Votes: 3 37.5%

  • Other

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • Total voters
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CORVETTE06

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What is your goal with women? Is it to get a girlfriend? Or is it just to keep getting with different girls and seeing how far you can get with each of them?

Or is your goal something else?


I don't know what i want to do. Do i just keep going from girl to girl? How do I know when to stop and settle down with one and have a girlfriend?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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Dont ask us what to do. We cant make the decision for you and you know that. Its nice getting with a lot of girls, but its also nice having a good relationship with someone...therefore, its a personal preference.
 
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CORVETTE06

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true, but its interesting to see what peoples' goals are with chicks..i ve been going out with all sorts of girls and dont have any plans on having a girlfriend
 
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