"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What Is Your Goal?

What Is Your Goal With Girls?

  • Get A Girlfriend

    Votes: 3 37.5%
  • Be A Player

    Votes: 3 37.5%
  • Other

    Votes: 2 25.0%

  • Total voters
    8

CORVETTE06

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What is your goal with women? Is it to get a girlfriend? Or is it just to keep getting with different girls and seeing how far you can get with each of them?

Or is your goal something else?



I don't know what i want to do. Do i just keep going from girl to girl? How do I know when to stop and settle down with one and have a girlfriend?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Dont ask us what to do. We cant make the decision for you and you know that. Its nice getting with a lot of girls, but its also nice having a good relationship with someone...therefore, its a personal preference.
 

CORVETTE06

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true, but its interesting to see what peoples' goals are with chicks..i ve been going out with all sorts of girls and dont have any plans on having a girlfriend
 
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