"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is your Favourite Pickup Environment ?

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Peterpack

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What's your favourite environment to approach girls ?

e.g.

College campus
Shopping malls
daygame in the streets
nightclubs
bars
streets at night
Beach
parks
etc etc


my favourite is definitely streets around nightclub/bar districts just at that time when people transition from bars to clubs (in Australia it's usually just before midnight). Girls are already a bit drunk but not blotto and easy to talk to. IF you give them an enticing enough alternative to waiting in line to get into the best clubs, some will take it :) e.g. an 'after party' nearby
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Daygame in the streets.
 
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Too busy during the day but come night time, that was when I'm at my best. NYC nightlife has plenty of opportunities every night, not just weekends.
 
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Too young for clubs. So daygame or just wherever I bump into a cute girl.
 
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Online dating & house parties. I pulled a ton of girls during my online dating phase 'cause I knew what messages to send (I have a whole program for online dating at the link below); as for house parties, once I learned the correct sequence of events to use when going after women at these parties, I was able to get regular hookups from said babes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Daygame and malls. I don't drink and don't like drunk people but i'll try the clubs when I move back to the city. Will be a challenge at first probably lol
 
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Eating in a nice restaurant but seated at the bar.
 
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