"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is your Favourite Pickup Environment ?

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Peterpack

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What's your favourite environment to approach girls ?

e.g.

College campus
Shopping malls
daygame in the streets
nightclubs
bars
streets at night
Beach
parks
etc etc


my favourite is definitely streets around nightclub/bar districts just at that time when people transition from bars to clubs (in Australia it's usually just before midnight). Girls are already a bit drunk but not blotto and easy to talk to. IF you give them an enticing enough alternative to waiting in line to get into the best clubs, some will take it :) e.g. an 'after party' nearby
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Daygame in the streets.
 
In2theGame

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Too busy during the day but come night time, that was when I'm at my best. NYC nightlife has plenty of opportunities every night, not just weekends.
 
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Too young for clubs. So daygame or just wherever I bump into a cute girl.
 
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Online dating & house parties. I pulled a ton of girls during my online dating phase 'cause I knew what messages to send (I have a whole program for online dating at the link below); as for house parties, once I learned the correct sequence of events to use when going after women at these parties, I was able to get regular hookups from said babes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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raider87

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Daygame and malls. I don't drink and don't like drunk people but i'll try the clubs when I move back to the city. Will be a challenge at first probably lol
 
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Eating in a nice restaurant but seated at the bar.
 
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