You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I second all this. I do like Le Male (and girls love it), but yes it is common.MidnightCity said:for dates and nights out*
1. YSL La Nuit de L homme
2. givenchy play intense
3. A*men/angel men
4. dior homme intense
and if you can afford it tobacco vanille
summer/spring
1. Terre de Hermes
2. green irish tweed
3. gucci pour homme II
dont wear one million or le male or anything like that. stuff is still way too common
That's what I was waiting for! Friend suggest me that one, I google and find review, but wasn't sure is that final decision or what.GotED? said:I been wearing cologne since I was out of high school.
Recently I tried out Versace EROS - this was incredible.
I have tried it on repeatedly over a month and am bought on it. I am waiting to find a woman to get it for me for Christmas, I just have way too many colognes on my hand to justify paying for another one.
If you want one that will work hard for you and your game, try Versace EROS.
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