Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I second all this. I do like Le Male (and girls love it), but yes it is common.MidnightCity said:for dates and nights out*
1. YSL La Nuit de L homme
2. givenchy play intense
3. A*men/angel men
4. dior homme intense
and if you can afford it tobacco vanille
summer/spring
1. Terre de Hermes
2. green irish tweed
3. gucci pour homme II
dont wear one million or le male or anything like that. stuff is still way too common
That's what I was waiting for! Friend suggest me that one, I google and find review, but wasn't sure is that final decision or what.GotED? said:I been wearing cologne since I was out of high school.
Recently I tried out Versace EROS - this was incredible.
I have tried it on repeatedly over a month and am bought on it. I am waiting to find a woman to get it for me for Christmas, I just have way too many colognes on my hand to justify paying for another one.
If you want one that will work hard for you and your game, try Versace EROS.
Exodus