"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What is your favorite habit?

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What habit do you think you do that has helped your success in life?

For example, the usual practice 10 min. to an hour a day practicing chords or scales for a musical instrument.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My favorite habit is smoking. Too bad I had to quit.

A habit that has helped bring success in life? Hmm, I don't know that there is one. Wouldn't be a habit then, would it?
 

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Eating raw brocoli with every meal. I hate the texture. I hate the little bulbs that get stuck in my teeth. But the energy I get from it is awesome, as well as the boost in testosterone.
 

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Playing the guitar, I need to practice more but I play in a band and practice twice a week with them and a few times a week by myself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Vice said:
Eating raw brocoli with every meal. I hate the texture. I hate the little bulbs that get stuck in my teeth. But the energy I get from it is awesome, as well as the boost in testosterone.
Broscience. :)

Props for eating broccoli with every meal though. I can't choke the stuff down raw anymore. Good non-bound calcium in the broc.

Regarding habits, probably keeping up with world events and domestic/international financial markets. That has translated directly to personal profit.

Regarding the most fun, probably weight training.

Aside from that, I do not like habits. My roommate wakes up at the exact same time each day, eats the same **** each day, and at pretty much any point in time I know exactly where he is and exactly what he is doing. No he is not employed. I used to invite him out at night when crusing with my friends, however he rejected every attempt at getting him to socialize, always with some lame reason like "I have to get up and <insert habit/routine here>."

While regimens are necessary for success, in many cases regimens/habits/routines can also lead to a life of misery, regret, loneliness, and boredom.

It really depends what the habit is in relation to your objectives.
 

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Maintaining professional contacts, and making them. Always network, always keep in touch.
 
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Eating plenty of fibrous foods. It's hard to beat having regular, effortless bowel movements.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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iwanttofight

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A new habit that I thinked that has helped me is actually reading this forum, it is full of great advice and tips to improve your life that they dont teach in school
 
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Alle_Gory said:
I fixed the title, seems someone here can't read and write well.

Thanks for the criticism. I will try harder.

That said, Vice had some solid advice. I think that eating fibrous vegetables is a solid idea.

Especially, since so many people eat a large amount of animal protein-it would only make sense to eat broccoli in order to lower ph acidity.
 

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Going to the gym, and putting in an effort to keep up with a lot of friends (meaning ones I don't associate with on a day-to-day basis).

Both are new habits for me, and have greatly enhanced my life in so many aspects.
 

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Do you guys pick your noses?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Konada,
I cant my girl makes me cut my pinkie nails super short so if I try I just end up pressing them up against the inside of my nose...
 

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1. Making food 2 days worth of food in an hour and storage it for consumption. Saves me so much time and money. It's crazy what kind of crap you are willing to eat when you are starving. My pre-planned meals consists mostly of chicken or beef with mixed vegetable and rice. Tastes great and very healthy as an added bonus.

2. Working out 3-4 times a week. Look great and feel great for myself. Added bonus is my woman loves it too.

3. Weekly and daily budget. I basically know where every penny. I don't make much, but I don't waste much either.
 
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