"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is your favorite habit?

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What habit do you think you do that has helped your success in life?

For example, the usual practice 10 min. to an hour a day practicing chords or scales for a musical instrument.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My favorite habit is smoking. Too bad I had to quit.

A habit that has helped bring success in life? Hmm, I don't know that there is one. Wouldn't be a habit then, would it?
 

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Eating raw brocoli with every meal. I hate the texture. I hate the little bulbs that get stuck in my teeth. But the energy I get from it is awesome, as well as the boost in testosterone.
 

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Playing the guitar, I need to practice more but I play in a band and practice twice a week with them and a few times a week by myself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vice said:
Eating raw brocoli with every meal. I hate the texture. I hate the little bulbs that get stuck in my teeth. But the energy I get from it is awesome, as well as the boost in testosterone.
Broscience. :)

Props for eating broccoli with every meal though. I can't choke the stuff down raw anymore. Good non-bound calcium in the broc.

Regarding habits, probably keeping up with world events and domestic/international financial markets. That has translated directly to personal profit.

Regarding the most fun, probably weight training.

Aside from that, I do not like habits. My roommate wakes up at the exact same time each day, eats the same **** each day, and at pretty much any point in time I know exactly where he is and exactly what he is doing. No he is not employed. I used to invite him out at night when crusing with my friends, however he rejected every attempt at getting him to socialize, always with some lame reason like "I have to get up and <insert habit/routine here>."

While regimens are necessary for success, in many cases regimens/habits/routines can also lead to a life of misery, regret, loneliness, and boredom.

It really depends what the habit is in relation to your objectives.
 

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Maintaining professional contacts, and making them. Always network, always keep in touch.
 
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Eating plenty of fibrous foods. It's hard to beat having regular, effortless bowel movements.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A new habit that I thinked that has helped me is actually reading this forum, it is full of great advice and tips to improve your life that they dont teach in school
 
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Alle_Gory said:
I fixed the title, seems someone here can't read and write well.

Thanks for the criticism. I will try harder.

That said, Vice had some solid advice. I think that eating fibrous vegetables is a solid idea.

Especially, since so many people eat a large amount of animal protein-it would only make sense to eat broccoli in order to lower ph acidity.
 

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Going to the gym, and putting in an effort to keep up with a lot of friends (meaning ones I don't associate with on a day-to-day basis).

Both are new habits for me, and have greatly enhanced my life in so many aspects.
 

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Do you guys pick your noses?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SgtSplacker

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Konada,
I cant my girl makes me cut my pinkie nails super short so if I try I just end up pressing them up against the inside of my nose...
 

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1. Making food 2 days worth of food in an hour and storage it for consumption. Saves me so much time and money. It's crazy what kind of crap you are willing to eat when you are starving. My pre-planned meals consists mostly of chicken or beef with mixed vegetable and rice. Tastes great and very healthy as an added bonus.

2. Working out 3-4 times a week. Look great and feel great for myself. Added bonus is my woman loves it too.

3. Weekly and daily budget. I basically know where every penny. I don't make much, but I don't waste much either.
 
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