"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is your favorite "greet the work-week" music videos?

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Yes, it is Sunday. It's the evening. If you have a full-time job, that means the break is almost over and soon you have to start the grind next week to a job you love, don't care about or hate..either way. What is your go to song?

I have a couple:
1) So Young - The Corrs


The reason why I selected this song personally, is because it reminds me when I was younger in 1997 when I did some Real-Estate courses to get my license. Had high hopes and explored the city around this time. The new full-time job also happens to be downtown as well, and for some reason this job feels like the job I missed when I came out of University in the early 2000s.

2) Chained to the Rhythm - Katy Perry


A loaded song. For one, it does feel like you are on a threadmill with a full-time job, going through the motions, but still not being able to make ends meet because of inflation and high cost of living and credit crunch. You sort of lose yourself in a way in a routine while the world is in the bring of WW3 and potential nuclear given what is happening in the Middle East, Russia, Ukraine, and any thing can trigger this ... but in the meantime, you are in your own merry little world going to work, oblivious to this and just worried about making the next sale and having good metrics. The nuclear bomb cotton candy is sold at the park. The Bombs Away ride is there, among other rides in the amusement park. A nice dose of Oblivia to start the week.

What is your favorite "start the work week" music videos?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's in the lyrics.

Whether you're a student or a person at work or on your way to work you kinda have to relate to this song. There has to be more to life than the 9-5 grind.
 
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