"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is your favorite "greet the work-week" music videos?

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Yes, it is Sunday. It's the evening. If you have a full-time job, that means the break is almost over and soon you have to start the grind next week to a job you love, don't care about or hate..either way. What is your go to song?

I have a couple:
1) So Young - The Corrs


The reason why I selected this song personally, is because it reminds me when I was younger in 1997 when I did some Real-Estate courses to get my license. Had high hopes and explored the city around this time. The new full-time job also happens to be downtown as well, and for some reason this job feels like the job I missed when I came out of University in the early 2000s.

2) Chained to the Rhythm - Katy Perry


A loaded song. For one, it does feel like you are on a threadmill with a full-time job, going through the motions, but still not being able to make ends meet because of inflation and high cost of living and credit crunch. You sort of lose yourself in a way in a routine while the world is in the bring of WW3 and potential nuclear given what is happening in the Middle East, Russia, Ukraine, and any thing can trigger this ... but in the meantime, you are in your own merry little world going to work, oblivious to this and just worried about making the next sale and having good metrics. The nuclear bomb cotton candy is sold at the park. The Bombs Away ride is there, among other rides in the amusement park. A nice dose of Oblivia to start the week.

What is your favorite "start the work week" music videos?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's in the lyrics.

Whether you're a student or a person at work or on your way to work you kinda have to relate to this song. There has to be more to life than the 9-5 grind.
 
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