"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What Is Your EndGame?

stevieLA

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Marriage?

Girlfriend?

Harem?

One night stands?

Hotties?

Fatties?

Average girls?

Conversely, have you given up on women?

Prostitutes?

Porn?

Incel?

What are your goals in the game? What are you doing to achieve your goals?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Initially it was girlfriend, reason I came here. Then it was one night stands, for a brief time my goal was a harem (waaay too much effort) before just wanting a girlfriend again. Then I abandoned my goal, I gave up on women for the sake of happiness. Then I effortlessly achieved my goal with my happiness still intact and now it's headed for marriage.

What are your goals in the game? What are you doing to achieve your goals?
Currently none. Apparently I achieve my goals shortly after having tried everything and given up. Just like looking for a stick in the woods, when you need one there's no sticks to be found, when you don't need one they're fvcking everywhere. Yeah, it is that ridiculous for me.
 

SoSuave666

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I generally have a very easy way attracting women and getting a rotation of 3-4. 3 is my comfort zone, 4 usually gets to be too much trouble. Inevitably what happens is one of my plates rises to the top and I eventually get in this quasi-relationship thing. What this site has done is given me more understanding of when and how to walk away, how to minimize the dependency/neediness, and oddly enough how to focus on other things other than women.

After the eventual breakup with the main plate I kind of regroup for a month or 2 and focus more on work. Then I get a rotation again and do it all over again.
 

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I´m still on the fence between going for eventual marriage and family or spin plates for life.
 

Roober

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There is no end, there is only a journey.

And on this journey, there is no goal, small or large, that requires a female companion.

Goals based on the relations with women means you lack the capacity to travel alone. When you lack the capacity to travel alone, depression, angst, failure and eventually desperation will work into the fabric of your personality.

Your only goal should be YOU.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My end game changes almost weekly. I would like a LTR but then I see married bishes faacking me with their eyes while their man stands next to them and chicks in LTR opening their legs for me. Its dissapointing but it is a good wake up call. Snaps me out of any blue pill mindset that might still exist.
 
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